What’s wrong with my DH?

[Anonymous]

My DH does everything in his power to avoid getting me upset. But when it happens(quite often) he pretty much tells me to go f*** myself. I’ve never been with a man like this before. He gets so fearful of hurting me or doing something that he knows will upset me but when it happens he gets on the offensive and screams at me for getting angry. No apologies ever! He expects me to apologize to him every single time! What’s up with this type of person?

[Anonymous]

He's not actually fearful of hurting you, he's just using that as a way to make you reassure him that he didn't do anything wrong and you're ok when he does things which are hurtful. He's selfish and angry. I mean just a guess.

[Anonymous]

Why do you get upset so often? Sounds like he's walking around on eggshells and things boil over on occasion due to your frequent upset.

[Anonymous]

You sound like quite a handful, OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why do you get upset so often? Sounds like he's walking around on eggshells and things boil over on occasion due to your frequent upset.

I've had a boyfriend I walked on eggshells around and I was definitely never telling him to go f himself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why do you get upset so often? Sounds like he's walking around on eggshells and things boil over on occasion due to your frequent upset.

I've had a boyfriend I walked on eggshells around and I was definitely never telling him to go f himself.

Maybe you should have.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why do you get upset so often? Sounds like he's walking around on eggshells and things boil over on occasion due to your frequent upset.

I've had a boyfriend I walked on eggshells around and I was definitely never telling him to go f himself.

Maybe you should have.

I did dump him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why do you get upset so often? Sounds like he's walking around on eggshells and things boil over on occasion due to your frequent upset.

I've had a boyfriend I walked on eggshells around and I was definitely never telling him to go f himself.

Maybe you should have.

I did dump him.

Good for you, life is too short to deal with that tension.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Why do you get upset so often? Sounds like he's walking around on eggshells and things boil over on occasion due to your frequent upset.

I've had a boyfriend I walked on eggshells around and I was definitely never telling him to go f himself.

Definitely a power difference. Op's dh can fend off an attack, if she launches one. We women are at a physical disadvantage with men. If they decide to hit us, it's going yo hurt and fo some damage.

[Anonymous]

He's gay

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My DH does everything in his power to avoid getting me upset. But when it happens(quite often) he pretty much tells me to go f*** myself. I’ve never been with a man like this before. He gets so fearful of hurting me or doing something that he knows will upset me but when it happens he gets on the offensive and screams at me for getting angry. No apologies ever! He expects me to apologize to him every single time! What’s up with this type of person?

The question isn't what is wrong with your DH, but what is wrong with you. You can only change you.

Take responsibility for getting upset. Why did you get upset so often? He doesn't sound fearful of upsetting you at all, since he is fanning the flames by screaming at you and telling you to go f yourself.

What do you get from this relationship? Sounds like hell to me.

[Anonymous]

I don’t understand why he has to work do hard at not upsetting you. He’s either very bad at life or you’re a grinch. Either way, you’re not a match.