
I haven't heard one person who can explain to me why it should be necessary for kids to do additional purely academic prep work (not activities, literally just more homework) than is offered at their school in order to gain admission to TJ. I feel awful for the tens of thousands of families over the past decade or so who have spent tons of money and torn their kids away from activities they're passionate about in an effort to keep up with that arms race. Never mind the thousands of families who did that just to have their kid be rejected by the old process. Ask the kids when they're 30 if it was worth it - I'll bet you they'll say it was to your face but privately they will raise their kids very differently. |
I haven't heard one person who can explain to me why it should be necessary for kids to do additional purely academic prep work (not activities, literally just more homework) than is offered at their school in order to gain admission to TJ. I feel awful for the tens of thousands of families over the past decade or so who have spent tons of money and torn their kids away from activities they're passionate about in an effort to keep up with that arms race. Never mind the thousands of families who did that just to have their kid be rejected by the old process. Ask the kids when they're 30 if it was worth it - I'll bet you they'll say it was to your face but privately they will raise their kids very differently. |
Hey mods - while you're deleting stuff feel free to delete one of my double posts and this one! ![]() |
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And how is that not an accusation of cheating?
That's your opinion and you can raise your children that what you think is in the best intersts of your children. And you should let them raise their children the way they think is in the best interests of their children By all appearances, their kids are succeeding at much higher rates than other kids, even if their soccer skills are poor. Immigrants focus on academic achievement. This dynamic has been true for immigrant populations my entire life. First it was the jews from eastern europe, then the east asians, and now the indians.
You misunderstand the entire point behind places like curie. They aren't enrolling 5-year-olds in curie because they want to prep for the TJ test for the next 8 years. They are in curie because even a C- student will have a vastly better life if they can be turned into a B+ student. Sure, curie offers TJ prep but that is such a small part of their curriculum. By the time the prep comes around, they have thousands of hours of extra enrichment that they can benefit from regardless of whether or not they go to TJ. They know full well that not every indian kid is going to get into mit and work at jane street, but they still believe their kid's life will be better off with 200 hours of math a year instead of 200 hours of sports. Who are you to say they are wrong? They can see how america treats poor minorities, they've seen that movie. This is not the country you come to if you want to be poor and brown. As for TJ, it's not meant for everyone. Compromising its mission to train the best and brightest in order to delude ourselves into thinking that the best and brightest are evenly distributed across all groups is stupid. Until you have equivalent effort across the board, you will not have equivalent results across the board; and judging from sentiments like yours that these parents are ruining their kids' childhoods by with too much study, there will never be equivalent effort... and you will never get equivalent results. |
Because our schools are woefully inadequate to challenge the brightest students and barely adequate to address the needs of mediocre students.
Excellence isn't easy. Many try, few succeed. But the notion that those years of extra study and academic effort is wasted time and money unless they get into TJ is nucking futz. These families believe their kids will still have a better life by studying than by playing travel lacrosse... even if they don't go to TJ I am one of those kids and at 30 I was making more than the president of the united states. That gave me a lot of options in life. I think it was worth it. I think I have a better perspective than recent immigrants so I think I can help my kids into achieving the same or better results with a more well-rounded childhood but frankly their schedules are much busier than mine when I was their age. I had a lot more time to stare at clouds as a kid. |
Hunh. What's up with the deleted posts? |
1) It's not an accusation of cheating because going to Curie isn't cheating. What Curie did themselves, while not technically being illegal, isn't great, but I don't consider the parents to have cheated because they signed their kids up to take advantage of the information that Curie shouldn't have had. 2) I reject the notion that overextending your child's time spent on academic activities amounts to a focus on "academic achievement". That's fine if you want to define it that way, but what I've seen altogether too often at TJ is students arriving prepared for the course material, but unprepared to handle the intellectual rigor without investing all of their free time on keeping up. This has led to inordinate stress levels and less competitive college outcomes because of an inability to invest in activities that show colleges that a student is a worthwhile investment for them. 3) I have no problem with people raising their children (and subsequently damaging them) however they want, but I will fight tooth and nail against any admissions process that incentivizes the damaging practices that I've witnessed for so long. Put differently, parents should not have to feel as though they have to subscribe to your child-rearing theory in order to have access to elite academic opportunities. 4) It's amusing that you mention that you've "seen how America treats poor minorities" while railing against a program whose most notable achievement is raising the TJ FARMS population from near zero to about 20% and the TJ Asian FARMS population from 1 to 51. It sounds like you're just fine with how America treats poor minorities as long as you get yours. Very illuminating with regard to your morals and ethics in the context of an America where most of the "poor and brown" people had their ancestors forcibly brought here. 5) Pretty much any peer-reviewed academic study (feel free to Google yourself) will tell you that the kid with 100 hours of math and 100 hours of sports is going to do better than the kid with 200 hours of math or 200 hours of sports unless they are categorically elite in either area. You can posit another opinion, but the scientific community writ large will disagree with you on balance. 6) I'd love for you to cite where TJ's mission is to "train the best and brightest". Feel free to peruse any of TJ's founding documents or anything that FCPS has ever put out. 7) As far as study goes, there is no question that it is critical to academic achievement. But I'm guided by the Law of Diminishing Marginal Utility when it comes to that area. And having seen the college outcomes of TJ kids for a long time - and hearing from parents at other relatively high-achieving schools in the area - I have a pretty large body of anecdotal evidence that supports my preferred priorities. |
You make many excellent points. Couldn't agree more. The previous poster is an awful person. |
...the PP as in the person you were responding to who is insisting on the crazy elitist narrative. |
So saying that these families buy test answers before the test is not an accusation of cheating? This information that curie shouldn't have had is available on amazon.com https://www.amazon.com/Quant-Test-Prep-Book-Practice/dp/109286427X You must have noticed how some people conflate studying with cheating. We cannot criticize effort and deny people the fruits of their effort, that changes incentives in all the wrong ways.
You reject the notion that studying amounts to focusing on academic achievement? Are you serious? You think the old way was imperfect, I can't defend anything as being perfect but: Do you think the kids picked under the new method are better able to handle the academic rigor? Test scores say otherwise. Do you think the kids picked under the new method have less stress? The rate of returning to base schools says otherwise. Do you think the kids picked under the new method will have more competitive college outcomes? We don't know yet but all data indicates otherwise.
And yet those "damaged" children (whether they make it into TJ or not) go on to have more successful careers, more stable marriages, better health and lower suicide rates as teens AND adults than other kids who may have been shielded from the inhumane practice of studying hard. You sure studying is such a bad thing? Put differently, parents should not have to feel as though they have to subscribe to your child-rearing theory in order to have access to elite academic opportunities. Elite athletic opportunities require sacrifice, far greater sacrifice than elite academic opportunities. But it's not just about elite academic opportunities. Time spent studying is not wasted if you don't get into some selective academic program. An otherwise C- student improves their life considerably by becoming a B+ student even if they had to study very hard to achieve that B+, actually ESPECIALLY if they had to study very hard to achieve that B+. Over the long run, being an honors student in high school has a better lifetime outcome than being a varsity athlete in high school. Studying has benefits far beyond getting better grades just like youth athletics has benefits far beyond the trophy they strive to get at the end of the season.
I am fine with the FARM preference, I don't think it's doing anyone any favors to put kids in over their heads just because they are poor but I can see a good argument for a mild FARM preference. We can even have a FARM quota. There is no constitutional prohibition against quotas for poor kids. But if you want more poor kids, the way to do it is to focus MORE on testing, not less. Stuyvesant, Bronx Science and Brooklyn Tech in NYC are majority FARM students and there is only one way to get in. Score well on a single test given in 8th grade. Holistic measures and subjective criteria tend to favor kids with resources. BTW, asians didn't own a lot of slaves. They just bear the burden of assuaging today's white guilt.
Can you link this study because I'm pretty sure that almost no other country in the world focuses on youth sports nearly as much as we do. They certainly don't put sports on par with academics. There are literally entire continents where the most popular kid in the school is likely to have one of the highest GPAs and test scores. Also, if we are talking about getting into TJ under the old method, you are likely talking about elite students even if they had to study hard to get in, you're not even in the ballpark if you weren't an elite student.
TJ is a governor's school. "The Virginia Governor's School Program has been designed to assist divisions as they meet the needs of a small population of students whose learning levels are remarkably different from their age-level peers. The foundation of the Virginia Governor's School Program centers on best practices in the field of gifted education and the presentation of advanced content to able learners." https://www.doe.virginia.gov/teaching-learning-assessment/specialized-instruction/governor-s-schools
Having gone to a school like TJ and seen the lifetime outcomes of people that went to schools like TJ my entire life, I think you might be seeing what you want to see and hearing what you want to hear. Where you go to college is not as important for a gifted student than being academically challenged earlier in life, their terminal degree is far more important than their undergrad degree. Facerolling your way through high school can lead to disastrous results in college when you finally hit that wall. Everything is subject to the law of diminishing returns but you still strive for excellence even if each unit of progress is more and more difficult to achieve, there is no upper limit to how much we need to develop the top end of potential. We have serious problems that will only be solved by bleeding edge technology. We are not going to protest our way out of global warming, we are going to science our way out of it. In fact much of the social progress of the last 100 years have been made possible by science not protests. Same with economic progress. |
TJ is an elite school. |
I agree with you on the first point. It shouldn't be necessary for kids to do academic prep work to be admitted to TJ. Unfortunately, many kids need to do outside enrichment to be adequately prepared for a school like TJ. This is largely because the Honors classes in middle school have been watered down to the point that any above average kid can get As without doing much work or learning much of anything. The most ideal solution would be for FCPS to lean hard on the middle schools to make honors and AAP classes rigorous and with non-inflated grades. Kids who struggle in a real honors class can choose to either drop down to regular or use a program like AVID to get extra support. Also, current TJ admissions policies don't even require kids to maximize what is offered at their schools. Every child in FCPS has the opportunity to qualify for Algebra in 7th grade. But, this is not required by TJ. Every child has the opportunity to take (watered down, not-really) honors in all subject areas. TJ allows kids to take gen ed (remedial) in one subject. With grade inflation, every kid who is above average should be able to get at least a 3.8. TJ allows kids to apply with 3.5s. Every single FCPS middle school has some STEM electives and STEM clubs. TJ does not require or even care about participation in these. Kids should not need to go beyond what is offered at their school to gain TJ admissions, but they should at least fully use what is offered at their school. |
TJ applicants all deserve a chance to grow and foster their love of STEM. Even if they weren’t lucky enough to be born into a wealthy family.
TJ exists for learning and enrichment; it’s not just a prize for lucky kids. |
If a program is for the most academically gifted students then you should probably be selecting the most academically gifted students without regard to how they became academically gifted. If you want to level the playing field so that poor kids are as likely to become academically gifted as wealthier kids, what's your plan? But you are trying to treat all kids as if they are equally academically gifted and treat TJ admissions like a bingo prize. If you want more poor kids then make the admissions based purely on a test. NYC does this with its flagship magnet schools and the majority of the students at those schools are on free or reduced lunch. Holistic admissions and subjective criteria favors kids with resources. |