Feeling sad about travel limitations

[Anonymous]

I am really close to baby time - less than 2 weeks to go! I am super excited to meet the baby!!!!! But recently a long time and dear friend was in a horrible accident in Australia suffering massive injuries and brain damage. So they are having a fundraiser for him next weekend 3 hours away - as in 3 days before my due date. For obvious and totally fine reasons, the OB said not to go, and I am ok with that. But I am just expressing a bit of sadness that I can't be there to support his family. We sent in money for tickets, and I think that is the most important part, but I'm over-emotional as it is and just not being there with our friends and his family makes me so sad.

Just finding a place to vent this to an audience who understands. I'm still so excited about the baby, but I wish he was around and healthy to celebrate with us.

[Anonymous]

I'm sorry OP, that must be hard but I'm sure his family understands.

I hope your friend recovers from the accident.

[Anonymous]

OP, call the family the day before and talk.
I did it for my friend's funeral, I felt so much better!!!
I'm sorry for your friend.

[Anonymous]

OP here - thank you for the warm thoughts and that is a great idea. I will definitely call and send well wishes and love. It's simple, but it definitely feels good to do.