I am so bored and lonely - I just want someone to talk to

[Anonymous]

Married for 14 year long years. Not a great relationship but can't get out either. I just want to chat with someone. I'm so lonely and bored.

[Anonymous]

I’m sorry.

What would you like to chat about?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m sorry.

What would you like to chat about?

Anything...really. A life experience about something that made you happy or made you feel special.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m sorry.

What would you like to chat about?

Anything...really. A life experience about something that made you happy or made you feel special.

When I was 4, I got to do a reading at my church. I felt like a rockstar. And you?

[Anonymous]

I'd like to join this chat too. I've been feeling really bored and lost lately. I've been married 15 yrs, and pretty content. I need some inspiration in my life

[Anonymous]

Op try a therapist. Friends should not be therapists.

[Anonymous]

My husband complains about being lonely and that I don't talk to him. So I have discussed our kids, our pets, suggested cooking together, ask his opinions on new events, ask if he'd like to exercise with me..... the answer is always no or he isn't interested. Bu, if I talk about porn, or my attractive coworkers, he's onboard. He's just grose and boring.

Are you driving the conversation or do you expect your spouse to lead and entertain you?

[Anonymous]

A life experience about something that made you happy or made you feel special: When I was in my third year of law school a friend suggested me and my boyfriend and him go nighttime cross country skiing. We met at 11 pm in the law school parking lot and drove about an hour into the mountains. We skied under the moon about an hour to a shelter with a wood stove and made hot chocolate and then skied back. It was so quiet and dreamy with blankets of white snow everywhere catching the light of the moon. My boyfriend and I got home at 3 am or so and probably slept in and missed class. It is one of my happiest memories.

[Anonymous]

When I was 15, going on an international trip, some other high schooler decided we shouldn't be bored on the trip. We spent the whole 14 hour flight writing notes back and forth. It was a great way to pass the time. We kept in touch through college but then lost touch.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op try a therapist. Friends should not be therapists.

We’re having a chat not dispensing therapy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:When I was 15, going on an international trip, some other high schooler decided we shouldn't be bored on the trip. We spent the whole 14 hour flight writing notes back and forth. It was a great way to pass the time. We kept in touch through college but then lost touch.

Did you keep the notes?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:When I was 15, going on an international trip, some other high schooler decided we shouldn't be bored on the trip. We spent the whole 14 hour flight writing notes back and forth. It was a great way to pass the time. We kept in touch through college but then lost touch.

Did you keep the notes?

probably for a long time but then got disenchanted with having so much stuff and threw it all away. I'm 45 now and wish I had kept some of my old stuff.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A life experience about something that made you happy or made you feel special: When I was in my third year of law school a friend suggested me and my boyfriend and him go nighttime cross country skiing. We met at 11 pm in the law school parking lot and drove about an hour into the mountains. We skied under the moon about an hour to a shelter with a wood stove and made hot chocolate and then skied back. It was so quiet and dreamy with blankets of white snow everywhere catching the light of the moon. My boyfriend and I got home at 3 am or so and probably slept in and missed class. It is one of my happiest memories.

that sounds lovely.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My husband complains about being lonely and that I don't talk to him. So I have discussed our kids, our pets, suggested cooking together, ask his opinions on new events, ask if he'd like to exercise with me..... the answer is always no or he isn't interested. Bu, if I talk about porn, or my attractive coworkers, he's onboard. He's just grose and boring.

Are you driving the conversation or do you expect your spouse to lead and entertain you?

there's no conversation to be had. we simply don't connect.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A life experience about something that made you happy or made you feel special: When I was in my third year of law school a friend suggested me and my boyfriend and him go nighttime cross country skiing. We met at 11 pm in the law school parking lot and drove about an hour into the mountains. We skied under the moon about an hour to a shelter with a wood stove and made hot chocolate and then skied back. It was so quiet and dreamy with blankets of white snow everywhere catching the light of the moon. My boyfriend and I got home at 3 am or so and probably slept in and missed class. It is one of my happiest memories.

That sounds heavenly.