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Javi needs some counseling, but I agree that Kail always thinks she is right and justified. Look at the footage of how she went to Jo over Javi and led Jo to think Javi is some deranged maniac who can't be trusted. Jo said he didn't like Javi coming over unannounced if it was going to scare Isaac, so now Kail paints it that JO is uncomfortable with Javi being alone with Isaac. She totally blamed Jo for it, when I'm pretty sure Jo is fine with whatever Isaac is comfortable with. And Isaac clearly wants to be with Javi.
Also, there's Isaac crying in the car because he can't see Javi, and Kail either pretends she doesn't or refuses to understand why he's upset. She just acts like he's sad that Lincoln's leaving, and offers no comforting words other than "why you crying babe?" Ugh, can't stand her. |
| Interesting how Kaiser didn't cry when Jenelle dropped him off for his first day at preschool! |
Agree. Kail seems to have shut her emotions off and is unable to feel empathy for what Javi and Isaac are going through. I usually like Javi, but he went way overboard in reacting to Kail and saying how he could break the windows because it is his house, etc. |
Probably good that he's there! |
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I think Javi is going a little crazy right now, which is understandable. He needs to pull himself together and be the mature one. Someone needs to tell him that Karl is batshit crazy, he's dodging a bullet by divorcing her, and he needs to work around her in the best interests of both boys.
Javi needs to surround himself with mature adults who behave normally, because that will draw his behavior to where it should be. Lincoln and Isaac are going to need him. He also needs to get a job (I am not clear if he's on leave or what - I have no idea how the military works) so he has more to do all day than sit around thinking about how Karl paraded men into his house while he was gone. He needs to be at peace knowing that she'll get hers from the universe and he doesn't need to stoop to her level. |
Of course he's happy to be there! First time he's being stimulated with age appropriate toys, surrounded by kids his age. We all know Janelle wasn't in any local playgroups for Kaiser to learn to socialize properly. First time he'll be around stable adults who can focus on children and speak in front of them appropriately. This is the best decision Janelle made after giving Jace to Barb. |
| Omg. kail is so awful |
| Kail is almost winning the worst person ever award which was an award previously held by Jennelle for 7 years in a row. She's inching up there and about to snatch it from her. Because ya know…"sometimes you have to hurt people to make yourself happy…sorry…not sorry." |
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I have to say my 3-year-old was one of those easy first day kids when she started preschool. Just dove right in to the toys and playmates. And she certainly came from a loving attentive home environment. Kaiser's been in daycare before, and this looked like another daycare center, not an actual preschool with a 2-year-old program, so I'm not sure why it's a big deal. But I think it'll be good for him to have attention and structure and somebody interacting with him in a positive way. |
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Just watched the new episode. What's with Chelsea and her mom and the Adam talk? It is no secret Adam is pretty much a non-existent parent. What's wrong with suggesting Cole fill in as "dad"? He already IS! He's living there, he's dad to her soon-to-be-brother! Why the shudder at the label?
Maybe Chels should stop scanning the crowds for Adam and constantly trying to make something work with Adam as dad, when clearly it isn't working at all? She needs to give up on that. She still seems to have a really hard time doing that. |
Chelsea explained on twitter that Aubree was uncomfortable and her mom wasn't taking the hint. I think Chelsea does a good job of letting Cole naturally fill in as dad. She's letting Aubree grow and realize who Adam really is. Chelsea doesn't need to, and shouldn't talk badly about Adam in front of Aubree. That's Child Psych 101. |
I guess that makes sense. But she's always hinting with her, "Did ANYONE ELSE show up at school for your birthday?" And other things. Just give it up. He isn't coming. She obsesses about him not showing up. He's been not showing up for like 7 years. Why are we even talking about it anymore! Some dads are absentee, she should just be glad Cole is stepping up. |
This. While in agreed wholeheartedly with her reaction to her mom's inappropriate talk in front of Aubrey, Chelsea talks to others about Adam in a derogatory manner within in aubrey's earshot all the time. |
I agree. She needs to just drop it. Supposedly he's not even paying support? He isn't the best at really showing up for Aubree. It's time for mom to go with the motions and give it up. From what we can see, he isn't the most quality influence. I don't see what he has to offer other than paternity. |