What to get for cousin who gave me a rental deal on his house?

Anonymous
What would be an appropriate thank you for my much older cousin who rented me his beach house at a discount?
We didn't leave anything like wine/flowers at the house as other renters were coming in right afterward; I'd like to send him something.
Would that be appropriate or overkill?
Anonymous
I have a beach house I let friends and family use free. I expect a handwritten card expressing thanks. Everyone but my husband’s step brother has given us something. Case of wine, 250 gift certificate for Williams Sonoma, Gift certificate to our favorite restaurant there. (In addition to heart felt notes). You get the idea
Anonymous
Note and a (modest) gift card, local wine, six pack of beer, is fine.
Anonymous
If they use the house and go to restaurants when they’re there, a handwritten thank you with a gift card to a restaurant they like.
Anonymous
I think a generous gift card ($100-$200) to a restaurant and a thank you card would suffice in your case.

My younger siblings use my beach house for free all the time, mainly because it is next doors to my parents. They always get the house cleaned and get any needed maintainence done. I pay for it of course, but we discuss stuff on our group chat. They also keep an eye on my parents home. Between the two houses there is ample room for all of us, but except for two times where we all have been together in the last 5 years, most of our vacations are staggered. Its worked out well for our family.
Anonymous
I'd send a few happy photographs you took inside the house and express the happy moments you spent on a thank you card + anything he might like (wine, giftcard to a restaurant etc).

Let's say you saved $500, I'd give at least $200.
Anonymous
That's very kind of you and of your cousin. I think sending flowers or wine would be much appreciated if they like that sort of thing.

Does he use the home for rental income? If so, I could see a monetary gift being more appreciated, but if not, a thoughtful gift is more appropriate from family.
Anonymous
In my family a heartfelt thank you, and returning the favor when able would be an acceptable thanks.
Anonymous
Gift card to a favorite restaurant is what we typically do. We also pay for the cleaning service.
Anonymous
Cute beach towels or books are always nice. So is fancy hand soap. And, you can never go wrong with wine.
Anonymous
Thanks, all! Ended up with a gift card to a brewery near their house.
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