Ugh DH is letting his friend and kids in the house

[Anonymous]

Front line worker works at a hospital. DH said they would be coming over to play in our backyard. Now they are in our damn house. I am so mad.

Can I kick them out?

I am beyond furious at DH.

[Anonymous]

No masks either. So rude.

[Anonymous]

Kick your husband out.

[Anonymous]

I’d tell them to go outside. ‘Hey guys - we aren’t doing inside get togethers right now. We’d love for you to stay but we’ve got to go outside’

[Anonymous]

Your husband is dumb. Shoo them outside.

[Anonymous]

Love ya’ll! GO OUTSIDE!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’d tell them to go outside. ‘Hey guys - we aren’t doing inside get togethers right now. We’d love for you to stay but we’ve got to go outside’

+1

[Anonymous]

Time to have some guts, OP! If someone's behavior is endangering your life, you don't go to DCUM to sulk! You act immediately, kick them out, and if you must, start a post-mortem AITA thread, with the option of apologizing later.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Kick your husband out.

They went outside.

I’m going to kill DH later. I know he will say it is NBD and i am making a big deal out of nothing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Kick your husband out.

They went outside.

I’m going to kill DH later. I know he will say it is NBD and i am making a big deal out of nothing.

It's okay to be angry about this, but your conversation may be more productive if you can keep it from escalating too much. Think of what you want to get out of it. If it were me, I'd be more interested in making a plan (or reiterating/re-enforcing an existing plan) before, say, getting him to agree that it was a problem or apologize for it. Future behavior is more important to have under control than the immediate satisfaction of going off on him when you're so mad.

[Anonymous]

Tell you husband to ask them to leave or you will do it. It's disrepectful for them to have come in the first place and for them now to be inside.

You are entitled to feel safe and secure in your own home.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’d tell them to go outside. ‘Hey guys - we aren’t doing inside get togethers right now. We’d love for you to stay but we’ve got to go outside’

+1

And wear masks

And stay a dozen feet away

Do it now.

No way would I let friends come in my house

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Kick your husband out.

They went outside.

I’m going to kill DH later. I know he will say it is NBD and i am making a big deal out of nothing.

I would be pissed too. Put on a mask and eye protection open up all the windows and doors to air. Then go outside and politely tell them that they cannot come inside again. That friends are not allowed inside the house.

I would be so pissed. And I would not allow any more friend visits since he violated the rules.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Kick your husband out.

They went outside.

I’m going to kill DH later. I know he will say it is NBD and i am making a big deal out of nothing.

I would be pissed too. Put on a mask and eye protection open up all the windows and doors to air. Then go outside and politely tell them that they cannot come inside again. That friends are not allowed inside the house.

I would be so pissed. And I would not allow any more friend visits since he violated the rules.

Yes. We will not be having anyone over again.

I had one friend over with her 2 girls last month. They played in our backyard, brought their own drinks and snacks. I did offer some prepackaged snacks and the kids had them. They never came inside the house. The kids did some water play and she changed her girls in their car.

[Anonymous]

People have to use the bathroom. I go with masks inside the house, try to maximize time between bathroom visits and no one else is in the house while visitors are in there. You should use a different bathroom for several hours and clean it after they leave.