Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:OP here. It doesn’t make me feel my baby is “ super special” to what a new, safe crib for him. I’m willing to budge on some things like clothes, swings, bouncers, etc., but not a crib or something important like a car seat.
Given safety requirements, my understanding is the all new-ish cribs (<7 years old, post drop sides) are safe. There isn't any safety justification for a more expensive crib on safety grounds. Even used cribs can just be washed with soapy water. (Of course, get a new mattress.)
OP, you'd get a very different set of answers if you asked about strollers. In that category, there is a huge difference in ease of use and comfort. It's a great place to splurge. I bet most here would support a splurge for a nicer stroller. Many would also encourage a splurge on a nicer chair or glider for the nursery. Many would support an expensive-ish car seat, as cheaper models can be less safe and have frustrating features (e.g., install or straps).
The thing with a crib is that they're mostly all the same and even if you want nice furniture, you have to know that the crib is likely going to get beat up and chewed so any extra investment is just a waste. Wait and get a quality big kid bed in two or three years. Get the cheapest crib you can stand now. Spluge in other areas.