Are you that stupid? Because we have girls and young women all over this country who go to extremes to prevent fatness. They make themselves throw up meals. They starve themselves. They cut themselves. To be FAT is literally the worst thing that can happen to a young girl, in their sick minds. Many mothers now try to deemphasize weight. It’s is a difficult endeavor. We want to teach health, fitness, self worth without hanging it on how we look. You can look around at host of thing girls and many of them have disordered eating. And you can look at chubby girls and their eating is more normal, they just don’t exercise enough. I’d much rather have a chubby daughter with clean mental heath. I don’t believe it’s an either/or situation, but I’m just broadening PP’s mind to understand the pitfalls girls face. |
America is the most obese country in the world. |
No, it's not, but it's the largest and most developed country with a high rate of obesity. |
I think setting as a rule in our house that processed foods (which includes chips and cookies) are bad for you and that they need to be eaten in moderation, is one of the most crucial healthy rule that i am very proud to have ingrained in my young kids. It doesnt mean they never eat bad foods, it means they learn to recognize them and eat those foods in moderation "popcorn movie night on Friday night"; A picnic outdoors with friends can have chips; ice cream or pizza on thursday night, you pick etc... Rest of the time is no processed food, eat your 3 meals, no random snacking but a healthy snack at set time in afternoon. You dont eat while watching TV, walking or dong something else. Eating is an activity that you plan and respect. Some kids will be chubby no matter what, it is their genetic. Their body will make sure they stay on the chubby side: they will want to eat more and/or move less. And we need to make sure that chubby kids have the same appreciative self-image of their body as their naturally thin friends. And food restriction is absolutely not the asnwer. But lets not conflate that with "fat shaming" . As much as i agree that a lot of kids will be chubby and beautiful and healthy, being obese is an entirely different thing. Baring some rare genetic diseases, kids dont get obese by eating too much of balanced meals and I dont see any justification for complacency on the parent side. This is our job as parents to make sure our kids doesnt have unlimited access to junk food, cakes and soda. Thats not fat shaming, it is called being responsible adults |
this. Remember, just because others (mostly old people in nursing homes, well, 50% or so) are getting sick and dying....doesnt mean you shouldn't take care of your own family's health, and that starts by maintaining a healthy BMI, and mind. Just because some families dont have enough to eat does not mean you should just eat garbage and get obesity. |
It is one of the most obese country in the world. |
I'm worried about this too. They eat when they're bored, and I don't have the capacity to ride them about it because I'm also trying to work. We go out for hikes or walks but not as much for them as when they are in school/daycare/aftercare. |