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Anonymous wrote:A top kid will forge their way in any environment. That is what we have found after nitpicking our K-12 acceptances a few years ago vs what our kid has accomplished to date. It's been a fun and wild ride, can't wait to see what is next.
Other kid, needs a kick in the pants to not do the minimum effort to get good grades. Honestly, perhaps if big sis wasn't who she was, maybe little sis would step up. Dad and I need to strategize on that one.... they are only 2 grades apart.
As for college admissions, NY, Boston, Palo Alto folks I meet with via work going through this college app season have all hated it. They all question the system, their private school environment, the socially engineered college classes, and realized that legacy means very little.
"They all question the system . . . the socially engineered college classes, and realized that legacy means very little." Ah, the agonized cry of stymied white privilege. Yeah, it was nice in the 1980s when going to Groton or St. Paul's, with good grades and board scores and your legacy status, meant a red carpet to the Ivy League, huh?
The world is a big place and these colleges want global and national student bodies. I've always believed legacy is acceptable legally -- that the business model of institutions highly dependent on donations makes it rational, even though it gives an advantage to white, Christian students (given that many top schools discriminated against non-white and Jewish students well into the 20th century). But just because the legacy system is legal doesn't mean colleges are bound to it, if they put a priority on new talent and diversity of all types -- racial, ethnic, geographic.
Signed, White Ivy League Alum