... for whom the biggest concern is getting caught with a fidget spinner. |
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I taught at Ballou last year. In some ways it's worse than the article made it out to be, and in other ways it's better. The vast majority of the kids have really shitty lives: abuse, trauma, you name it. Oddly enough, outside of cursing and being loud, most of them are pretty good. Some of the best behaved ones have the worst personal stories. They make you want to come to work just to help them get the tools they need to escape. But there's about 15% of them who make teaching next to impossible.The things that they do in a classroom would get them arrested if they were adults in the workplace. But even they aren't that bad when you get to know them. It reminds me of that old Looney Tunes skit with the coyote and the sheepdog. They're the best of friends until they get to work and clock in. Then they're at each other's throats. Some of those kids are like that. It doesn't matter how much you talk to them outside of class or how often they eat lunch in your room. Some of them would come to my room crying about things going on their lives. The minute the bell rang and we were in class, they were completely unbearable. I loved working with them, but it takes a toll on you mentally, emotionally, and physically.
I was tempted to quit in the beginning until I got to know the kids and realized that their behavior wasn't personal. When you meet some of the parents, you begin to understand. I didn't have a bad experience with the principal. I felt supported the whole time, but there are limits to that support. It would be a lot easier if they could round up that 15% and put them in small classes of maybe 5-10 max, but that will never happen because DCPS won't allot the funds for something like that. It would be even better if we had some autonomy with our curriculum. When you have 25 kids in one room who are so far behind academically, you really need the time to build up their skills. Unfortunately, that won't happen either. There will continue to be high teacher turnover until DCPS stops blaming schools for things that parents should be responsible for controlling. Last year there was a metric that required us to have a certain number of students in attendance each day. We were responsible for calling homes and trying to convince parents to get their kids to school on time. Most didn't answer or have a working number. Still, it was on us. |
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I'm trying to imagine what would make a second grader feel so threatened that he would settle on stabbing someone as the best solution. Just thinking about it is giving me chills. |
Thanks for doing a good job in challenging circumstances! |
NP and dcps teacher at 40/40 school in ward 8. This is the issue, someone needs to get creative for those 15%. So many kids want to learn and they just ruin it. Also completely agree about problems with admin and zero ability to consequence. |
Dcps teacher here. I agree with everything you said. Are you staying in teaching or starting a new career path? |
But basic needs are met. The govt is providing housing, food, medical care, school supplies, school clothing, education, etc and so on to the majority of these students. Even you point out the school is feeding them. They might not like the food and no it's no necessarily organic and preservative free but it is food which is a basic need. So the basic needs of many students are already being met by the govt. The govt can provide basics. It can not provide the quality you as a high SES parent expect for your own child.
You are right, not all of them fit the stereotype but the ones who don't are the exception, not the rule. The narrative we as high SES parents tell ourselves about the poor downtrodden kids who "just want to learn" is nothing more than that. A narrative to make us feel better. Most kids even in high SES schools don't care that much about learning. School is just something their parents insist they must do and must do well, so they do it. Leave it up to kids and they majority would prefer to be playing no matter what SES level they are. It's the outlier kids who would choose to study instead.
Ugh, this is such a pretensions white high SES parent thing to say. He must feel threatened to do something like this! Nah, the kid most probably saw or heard older kids use this as a solution when other kids have pissed them off or done something they don't like, so the 2nd grader decides if the older kids did it to solve their problem, then he will to. |
for now i'm staying in teaching, but not dcps. we'll see if it gets better for me, otherwise i might choose a new path. not sure what that would be. you got ideas? |
| I've been looking for a HS Social Studies DCPS position and there is never anything available! |
You kinda suck at being a person. It's probably not useful news to you, but when you finally come to the realization you might recall that you'd been warned. I sincerely hope you don't have kids of your own but if you do, you should be made aware that they're learning how to solve problems at that age but not very skilled. Implications sit in a nebulous cloud of possibilities that they've gleaned from sources as varied as overheard conversations and as unreliable as cartoons. They do know fear pretty well, though, and it's reasonable to conclude that kid was scared and didn't feel he could rely on anyone to help him. |
And BTW, I'm not white. |
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By holding the chancellor accountable in how he allocates budget funds and stop creating $177K roles like Deputy Chancellor of Social Emotional Academic Development (https://www.idealist.org/en/government-job/28ca6f663e2a4bcd92c8bf995bc6e75c-deputy-chancellor-social-emotional-academic-devolpment-dc-public-schools-washington) and Chief Equity and Diversity Officer (https://www.idealist.org/en/government-job/6660675ae8db40beb272e43713559b8d-chief-equity-and-diversity-dc-public-schools-washington).
Invest in supporting teachers in-house. Skim the very top at central office and stop creating stupid roles that don't help teachers and principals. |
I worked in DCPS and with kids who dropped out. This is probably the best description I've ever read. It goes without saying that as sweet as the kids are, I would never work in either scenario again. it's not actually teaching...it's something else. I'm probably the better for it, but the kids (who are there year after year, aren't). Yes, stop setting teachers up to fail. DO try creative alternatives. Any. All. It's better than the status quo which is no one learning anyway and high teacher burnout. |
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I am a parent at a High Income school, almost no FARMS, the teacher turn over each year is about 25%. This is is nuts. These teachers are moving to other schools int he district or the nearby, they are not leaving the professio
Parents are wondering what tony suggestions welcome. |