It's not in your area, so don't worry. I hope your schools are better. |
I'm going to go out on a limb and say that the four-year-old's comprehension of Harry Potter was extremely limited. |
OP here. I don't know about the entire school. It's ranked high. The teacher is great when she's involved. But she is older, her children dump grandkids on her to babysit any free time she has, so she's always exhausted, using up a lot of sick leave. Also, at school they make her do after-school care and other extra-curriculum activities which is also overwhelming for her. She's low on energy and sends pleasing emails to parents because she can't control the class or doesn't have time for reading. How can I assess whether it's worth staying for the first grade? So much depends on individual teacher. |
Would you take a book and read it for pleasure if you can't comprehend it? I wouldn't. |
Really? Really? Let's see: --Learning to take turns --Learning to speak aloud in a group --Learning to cut with scissors, gluing, painting --Learning about patterns, calendars, days, weeks, months --Counting, shapes --Handwriting, hand strength --Journal writing, coloring, drawing (how to draw a person - are necks there, no more stick people, human characteristics, etc.) --Music (songs, beats, tunes) --Social studies (holidays, important people - Johnny Appleseed, Betsy Ross, early presidents) --Science (sink/float, magnets, planting seeds) --Simple measurement Those are off the top of my head from last year's kindergarten class. FWIW, my son was one of the two top readers in his class in kindergarten. He was never bored in class and I can't think of a book that would 'bore' my son. You're ridiculous. I completely recognized that the teacher was there with 28 other kids. My son wasn't the "only" one doing what he could do. Your daughter isn't the only one doing what she can do. My son learned an amazing amount in kindergarten. You're going to pass off this attitude onto your kid. There was a mother in one of the other kindergarten classes who went on and on about her amazing kid's reading ability. Kid gets into first grade and starts doing poorly on the DRA. DECODING is NOT the standard for reading level. Her kid is now in the middle of the pack, rather than the top. Her mouth doesn't flap about so much at the bus stop anymore. |
The bolded statement x1,000. Here's a quick sampling of the vocab in H.Potter. A four year old - no matter who it is - is NOT getting the basic understanding of the book. Someone may be explaining it or maybe he saw the movie first but I assure you, he is not reading H.Potter and understanding it as it is intended: tawny chortle snivel apothecary prefect baron gaunt infusion smarmy keen askew luminous palomino petrify hygienic abysmal |
Having been a K teacher who took kids to the library to choose books, I can tell you that they will. Perhaps, older brother is reading it and the child wants to be "cool". Perhaps, he thinks mom will read it to him. Perhaps, he is just trying to impress his friends. I'm just a tad doubtful that a four year old can read and appreciate Harry Potter. Or, at least, most four year olds that I have known. |
Absolutely true. DD was not reading especially well in K. However, she loved books and we had read to her from the time she was born. She did have an amazing vocabulary and imagination. We never pushed her to read. In first grade, she quickly passed the others and by fourth grade was way ahead, I suspect--I never asked. Sixth grade, she got the award for reading and went out to be a highly successful high school and college student. The child whose mom was bragging in K and, even in first? Her DD did fine--as did a couple of others who were ahead of my DD in K. However, DD went to the far more prestigious college and took the tougher classes and got the awards in high school. I taught first grade. Believe me, MANY kids who start not reading pass others--IF they have a good background of experience. Learning to read is not a race. The tortoise frequently passes the hare. And, it's not necessarily because he is slow and steady--it's usually because he is better prepared. |
Or maybe he can read and appreciate it -- but comprehend it? On his own? He's four. |
Yes, of course. You are always right. He can. He absolutely can. I don't care how gifted he is...he doesn't have the world knowledge to understand a book like that UNLESS he has someone reading and explaining it to him OR he has seen the movie first. How on earth would a boarding school make sense to a child who has no life experience with that?
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I am sorry to tell you but you are a perfect example of "THAT mom". Your teacher might be not the best around but the way you treat her is just horrible, show some respect for the person your DD spents hours a day with. I was goint to suggest you volunteer, but after reading this, please DONT. If you have so much contempt for the teacher and so much tome on your hands, may be homeschooling is a good option? Disclaimer, I am not a teacher and have a Ker myself. I dont know if his teacher listens to him read every day, but I do know that they get reassessed constantly and get praise for moving up a level (by teacher, very meaningful to my DS). Mine didnt read at all either going into K, now at level F (MoCo) comfortably. He sometimes gets an E or D book sent home too but thats because he chose that book. |
OP, the PP is telling you the DCUM rules: 1) You are not allowed to think that your child is doing anything more than "average" or "grade level". If you think your child is ahead, you must be wrong. 2) If you disagree with a teacher about anything, you are wrong, and you are one of those "snowflake" parents. But in real life, my kid's teacher has been wrong about her reading level all year. Which I gently questioned and advised about, and she ignored. Then the counselor had the reading specialist work with my child, and what do you know? My kid's reading level was exactly what I thought it was and the teacher was completely wrong. By two entire grade levels. |
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OP here. Who said anything about a race? I just want my child to be challenged at school. I don't care if she's ahead of your Karla or not.
It sounds like you are in horse race constantly comparing you DD and her number if awards with other children. Also, as to our four year old friend, can you accept the idea that not four year olds are the same and some might be gifted? |
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OP,
Does your child complain about school? Does she like being there? Does she like the teacher and the other kids? |