Luxury cars are dime and dozen and I doubt impress many people. That said, if they do, all the better. I don't have a family to bail me out bug I do have a plan B should things here take a bad turn. But even if I didn't, I wouldn't live my life under the premise of the worst possible scenario. That is as irrational as pissing money away. Everyone u know in rl, including our financial advisor considers us savers. Only here it I am supposed feel like a reckless spender. People here have simply no sense of proportion. Americans in general lack cultural models of moderation in all areas. |
What is the dilemma? Who cares WTF anyone thinks of the car you drive? and even if you do care, you obviously can't control what message people are receiving, as the two totally different reactions above indicate. So there is no point to worrying about it. Which means, there is no dilemma. |
Are you serious? Where do you live? I don't think this is the attitude in DC. . |
My goal is to make enough money before I retire so I don't have to spend my golden years living in a third world country to save money. |
| My goal is to make enough money before I retire so that I can spend my golden years touring all the third world countries. |
it's indicative of a problem. |
This. I see money = freedom and more choices. At this stage in my life those choices/priority have to do with my career as well as what non-material things (school, summer camps, activities, college savings) I am able to provide to my kids. When I have provided what I want for my kids, and job wise am working because I want to and not to cover basic things like food and shelter then I can see a 40K plus car as a why not and type of reward. The other thing is I am rough on cars and I see people rear-ended/fender benders all the time in this area. My expensive car litmus test is if someone hits me I am more concerned that everyone is okay and not upset some idiot hit my 40-60K car. Until I can have the it's just money attitude about the car, I don't want to drive an expensive car. |
How is old age gold years? You might be so sick, you won't even be able to travel, alone to the third world. |
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I am pretty frugal and think it is no big deal to buy a $40k car. A Prius type car runs low to mid 20s. What difference does that extra $15k make over 10 or more years? A luxury car typically drives better and has extra comforts. That's something worth paying for.
For the record, DH and I each make $150-200k and each owns a pre-owned luxury car that cost $30k (sticker price $37-50k). |
| As someone who has owned a lotus in my 20s and then a BMW in my early 30s and now drives a honda, this thread is really interesting. I used to subscribe to the whole "what car I drive says something about me" (I was in banking), and then over time I actually came to the realization that the rich folks I knew drove Hondas, Subarus etc - at least those in the "attainable rich" category (say under $20M in liquid assets). Of course those with hundreds of millions drove whatever the hell they wanted, but otherwise, the only people impressed by my lotus (until they got in it and realized it's actually not a particularly comfortable car, at all) were people you wouldn't give a shit were impressed. Although I miss the fun of a lotus, my fourth the cost honda suits me fine. |
What kind of problem? are you assuming that's a lot of bottle and that I'm drinking all that wine? |
It actually seems like very few people in this thread ascribe to the "what car I drive says something about me" belief. |
| It would take "ten billlliiiooon dollars" for me to waste $40k on a car. |
repeat that to yourself until you believe it. LOL. |