i'm not involved in their social lives but yes, involved in extracurriculars. first, there is a lot of driving, paying for things, etc. then i encouraged them to join, find their thing and go deep. kept suggesting things for them to try or to go deeper. they would not have thought of these or done them without some encouragement. example - start a club in area of interest where there was not one, volunteer, and i made them join at least one club in HS (of their choice). |
You are responding to my post. I was just pointing out that, as parents of serious students, we had to be on top of our kids, because there is a large cohort whose parents, for a variety of reasons, cannot/will not monitor their high schoolers learning at lower performing schools. College is not the goal of a large group of students. However, our kids’ friend groups ended up at colleges ranging from UVA to Alabama |
My daughter who is at UVA attended a HS in Prince William County, which I’m sure would make most on DCUM assume means it’s a school that would make it easier to get into than coming from FCPS At her HS a 4.4 seemed to be the cutoff. My daughter had a 4.6 and 1530 SAT |
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School specific. Aim to be in the top 3% of students in your graduating class from a GPA standpoint. Yes FCPS doesn’t rank but the AOs know where your kid stands on a percentage base so use that as a de facto rank.
Less competitive HS can be an advantage for admission from NOVA. |
Those stats are in line with the stats of kids who generally get in from NOVA. |
How did it go from top 5% yesterday to top 3% today?? |
[b] Because that is their opinion. No one has the exact figure. Ten years ago when my DD went we said “top 10%”. Now it is much more difficult to get in |
FCPS absolutely does rank, but they keep the rank a closely guarded secret (as does Loudoun county). Our HS college counselor was publicly confronted by a parent who pointed out the U.S. military academies require submission of class rank. Awkwardly, the counselor had to admit there is a rank, just not available to parents. |
+1 About 3 or 4 years ago, Loudoun accidentally left their class ranking openly posted on a school website for a few days; it was copied before it was taken down. Loudoun also falsely claims they don’t have a rank. It exists, but it’s kept strictly confidential. |
Counting middle school? Yes. But only 3 years of high school French. |
It’s only about two hours but traffic can make a huge difference. Amtrak also runs a train |
At my kids' school, many families are immigrants working multiple jobs and just trying to survive. That doesn’t mean they don't care about their kids or their education. There are kids to watch out for at every type of school, regardless of test scores or income. I don't think that "lower performing" schools require MORE parental oversight... just different kinds of understanding and support. Most of my kids' friends have ended up at VA schools (UVA, Tech, W&M, JMU), as well as out-of-state schools, SLACs, and Ivies. |