My DC did in fact turn down one of those named elite schools to attend one of the other named Ohio schools, because we could not afford to pay for the higher ranked LC. DC is now in grad school at HYP. It all worked out well. It's about the student, not about the institution. |
| *LAC |
While possible, if true, you would have named the specific schools. |
DP but that’s nobody’s business and is such a stupid comment. |
| A parent of a current Oberlin athlete has complained about a divide between athletes and non-athletes at this school. Not unusual however. |
Well yes. It’s has a conservatory. What’s you’re point? |
Someone was suggestion Oberlin was somehow straying from its ethos by offering a business degree. I was pointing out that it’s still very much committed to the arts and conservatory with new offerings there too. |
Glad to hear Kenyon is upgrading its dorms. They sure appear to need it! |
| We know kids who are very happy at Oberlin but it has a very artsy alternative vibe that made my kid run in the other direction. So make sure it's the right fit. |
old news. yawn. no one cares. |
I know very well what a diversity statement is. It is all in semantics. Different schools can use it different ways. Some are using it as you stated, to demonstrate teaching skills. Others are using it to weed out political philosophy and for extreme virtue signaling. It is tone deaf in this day and age to have something like this that is applied universally. As with so many things these days, it is taking something where intentions might have been good and is often used appropriately and taking it to extremes. Read the NYT article from a few weeks ago about DEI at Michigan. It was craziness. And again, I am someone who is a Democrat who is more supportive of DEI than most of America. So if I think it is nuts, guess what they think? I'm not saying we should constantly be rolling over and giving them what they want - that is an awful idea. Especially because they are highly unlikely to reciprocate. But we should occasionally moderate our more extreme tendencies on certain things where it won't kill us to do so. Then why use Michigans DEI statements to blame Oberlin for what shows up on Fox News? Have Oberlin’s DEI faculty hire requirements been a culture war flashpoint? Been shown to be absolutely outrageous? If this is something that can be used appropriately, and no one is pointing to evidence that Oberlin didn’t apply it moderately, why are you dunking on Oberlin parents and kids over this issue? Fine. The bakery incident at Oberlin. It made national news. It was ridiculous. You can write it off as "old news" but it happened and was not good. I will stop now. Because I don't think Oberlin is truly that bad and I know there are plenty of much more mainstream kids there. I am using it as an example of things happening nationally. For a certain kid it is a good place and these people are definitely not inherently bad people at all - their intentions are good and I will take them over a Trumper any day. But people just need to be aware of what they are getting into. |
Are you saying I am lying? Why would I? I will not out myself to satisfy your curiosity. |
| turned down carleton for oberlin due to cost. it happens- 4.3 1440 sat (humanities major) |
| My kid turned down Williams for a merit aid LAC. Didn’t look back. |
| We visited Oberlin last year. My kid was admitted early in December (3.7/4.1, 1510) and offered a 36K/yr scholarship). Did not end up going because Oberlin did not have the major that my kid wanted but both of us loved it. |