The evidence for my statement is over my 30+ year career dealing with people from a number of schools the caliber and preparedness of people coming out of these schools is lacking. It's become a running joke the stupider the question the more likely they are to be from an Ivy, usually Harvard. They just lack basic common logic skills. The other part of the problem is compounded by boards like these telling you where to move, what ECs to pay for, what fake opportunities to present. For every kid that is outstanding is another that got there with smoke and mirrors. Something else telling is now they are adding remedial math classes, so... |
Different poster here. What is the book itself though? Is it related to the institution or just a regular hardback book? What would be an example of the type of book they would gift a high school kid? Clearly I've never received one of these... |
| Back in the 80's and 90's a lot of the kids at these elite Ivy institutions were graduates of andover, exeter and other elite boarding schools that were essentially feeder schools back in the day. Are we seeing fewer accepted from those boarding schools and if so, what is the case then for people sending their kids off to these schools (unless they are international, which I understand)? |
They might, and it is “nostalgia” not reality. You can find such statements going back hundreds of years. Humans tend to memorialize the past with over rotation. If you had a good life it was “the good old days”. If things were tough “We walked miles uphill in a snowstorm just to buy ice cream”, etc. No truth to it, just poor memory. |
| I live in a suburb in Texas, and the kids I know who have gone to those sorts of schools are athletes. The exception is one kid who has an amazing personality and I guess it showed through on his applications. Public schools but in a heavily Asian area like some other Texas suburbs. |
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Which is another way of saying FGLI… |
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Re: personality types getting in to Ivies: My kid is already seeing this play out at his large, suburban high school. Kids in the top STEM track (roughly top 5% academically) normally get into some top schools, with maybe 4 or 5 Ivies accepting 1 or 2 of those kids. Legacy also plays a role here as we are in an area with a top private and have our share of professor's kids who attended Ivies.
This year they have one person who swept all the top Ivies + Stanford. She took all the rigorous STEM classes + did all the popular girl clubs with leadership, school rep, that kind of thing. Wrote about being a member of a [religious/ethnic group] + member of [different ethnic group] surviving in male-dominated spaces. There will probably be fewer Ivy acceptances at his school this year since she [ironically?) dominated that particular space. |
Edited to say: kids whose professor parents attended Ivies. |
Not all kids of "rich/well connected parents" are development admits but all development admits are kids of "rich/well connected parents" Just like not all URM are there because of racial preferences but all the kids there because of racial preferences are URM. |
DP I think it might be more accurate to say that there's isn't as much separation between HYPSM grads and other Ivy+ grads as there used to be. I don't know if this is because HYPSM admit pool is diluted with DEI or because there so many HYPSM level kids that you can fill up the entire ivy+ and then some. Kids are wicked smart these days. |
Nowhere else in the world, would being takes at the state level in tennis, lacrosse, squash, baseball, crew, polo, water polo, etc get you into the best college in the country. With that said, it does reflect hard work and character. |
DP So a group is subject to racial discrimination and complains about that racial discrimination, and that makes them especially racist? You are the reason we have a president trump. |
Diluted with DEI? Give me a break. If anything these "DEI" kids have increased the brain power at these schools because it means fewer connected/legacies/etc. That said, I agree that the spectrum across the top 50 or so has narrowed a ton. |
So you just answered the question: you have no evidence. You have an personal anecdote from your own limited experience, which seems to be reinforced by your own bias. The Ivy grads you have so much disdain for could surely explain to you the difference between this and actual data. But you might not understand. |