I agree with this. Plus the desirability of Harvard /Columbia has faded significantly the past few years. |
What are the top 100 high schools? |
all this says that choosing brown over hyps is not unheard of where it is an ostensibly lower tier for undergrad student quality. this isnt law school |
This is so gross. By the way, you need over a 4.0 to get into UCLA. Not Mid. Spending your time speculating on this? Nothing better to do? Loser. |
It's full of lies. 50% of Emory students went to private high schools, yet 85% are in the Top 10% so just so happens DMV private students make up the other 15% at Emory? Not low income urm students? |
+1 |
What does this mean? Why Emory? |
Are you sure about the deciles or are you guessing because you assume the top students chose those schools? |
It always amuses me when people presume to know so much about other kids. A very unassuming kid with no school involvement got into a T5 and I started to form an opinion, and then quickly realized I have no clue what this kid does so who am I to judge. I later saw a write-up on them for a merit scholarship and that was absolutely the case, doing very cool stuff no one would know about outside of school. |
Having had a girl and a boy go through the college admissions process at a private school, I will tell you the girls know a lot more about everyone’s scores, stats, and special hooks. Boys are just not as in the weeds on this stuff and frankly don’t care as much.
So if you are a girl mom and have good Intel, that counts for a lot |
if it’s a small enough private school where everybody knows everyone’s business maybe. But again it does depend on your school.
These quarttiles /divisions are meaningless outside of your school. |
Generalization, my son cared more than my daughter, but neither were asking their friends for their scores. I find your statement that boys don’t care as much wildly inaccurate. Some kids care, some don’t, some show it, some hold cards close to their chests absolutely nothing to do with gender. |
“Guessing” is a generous term for what’s going on here. |
This is family and area dependent. A lot of us send kids to the high schools we attended, and even our parents and grandparents attended. This is more usual than not (maybe?). I've known 80% of these kids since they were born, and have been at their swim meets or robotic tournaments forever. I've donated to the fundraising when some kid got an opportunities for a competitive summer program or bought wrapping paper for their team's travel to regionals. I can tell you what street their grandparents live on and if their uncle was a good football player. I sometimes know sadder stories about the extended family than the kid has been told. I think the DC area might be an area that people move to for work and they're going to new schools with new families. But some of us do know a lot so I wouldn't be too amused by that. |
My boys go to an all-boys high school and they are told every score. It might go in one ear and out the other, but they know a lot. The boys aren't holding anything close to the chest. They even share essays looking for input. They don't really see the other guys as competition, thank god. |