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I don’t disagree with you that on the whole teachers can be very whiny sometimes (and I am a teacher) but I will say your suggestion for teachers to fix it isn’t quite on target. I teach in the same district my kids are students in and I promise you I get more traction when I speak up about something from the position of being a parent in the district than an employee in the district. The parent voice has much, much more power. |
What were parents asked to do on this thread? Nobody asked you to buy presents (other than the OP). Nobody asked you to go to the Board on our behalf. I asked you to just not be so combative if teachers post on DCUM. That’s the only request made. But it’s DCUM, so we tear teachers apart. It’s a sport here. Every benign comment made by a teacher is registered as a complaint and niceties end. |
1. I never said that all other jobs are flexible. Just that teaching is not. 2. I think that taking off the last three weeks is not just unhelpful, it's inappropriate. I have never seen a teacher do this. I very much wonder how on earth they are able to take so much time off. I have five sick days and two personal days a year, and we have to get prior approval to take the personal days before or after days where there will be a high demand for subs, such as right before a three-day weekend or during the last week of school. 3. On an offer of employment, it is stated that you are expected to work 7.5 hours in a day. I anticipated having to do extra for school events, meetings that go late, final grading periods, etc, and I think most teachers expect that same. I don't think its crazy to be frustrated and surprised to work 60 hours a week to meet expectations. 4. You have never had to teach kids who have bad behavior, I presume. I have a pretty good idea of when kids are being parented well and when they aren't. I know because when I contact parents to report bad behavior, always in a respectful matter because I want to develop good relationships with teachers and students, parents and students respond very differently. Some parents are extremely apologetic and surprised, and say they will ensure the behavior doesn't happen again. Some parents don't respond, but their kids come to school the next day resentful, but behaved. Some parents don't respond and the behavior continues as normal, except now with a smug "you can't do anything about this" attitude. Some parents say it's my job to deal with it, and others say their child couldn't have possibly behaved in a manner any less than perfect. |
Well. I don't think we parents have the power you think we do. I have spoken up many, many times as a parent, and crickets. What about your union? Whe are you complaining to parents and telling us to fix things instead of going to your union? Isn't that the literal point of a union? |
I mean there's literally a post right before yours saying parents should speak up because we get more traction than teacher voices. |
It’s not really a union, it’s an education association. Schools don’t even let the LCPS education association in the building anymore and we don’t have every staff member choose to be parent of it. Again, you’re treating me like I’m an “other” when I TOO am a parent in this community. I engage in advocacy AS A PARENT because it gets me further than when I attempt as staff whom they see as replaceable. |
So the summers off you keep yammering about aren't so attractive to you after all. Got it. |
Anything wrong with Target gift cards? I would hate for it to be wasted. Any other suggestions. I’m hesitant to give Starbucks cards. |
I thought this changed and now they are truly unions. Just saw that AEA negotiated a contract with APS. |
I’m a parent and a teacher. I’ve spoken up as a parent and as a teacher. My parent voice gets more attention every single time. |
Well I’m in LCPS and it is not a union here. |
Even if we wanted to subsidize their salary we can’t give above a certain amount. |
It’s very simple actually. I’m not a teacher because I don’t think I would be able to work with kids all day and come back to my kids. I’m also not good at teaching. I am good at learning though which is why I got to where I am. Also most of us are the profession we are because we found ourselves in it. So no we aren’t all going to suddenly quit, get a teaching certification and teach. My friend is an ESL teacher in Fairfax county and loves her days off. She thinks the teacher schedule is great as it allows her to balance raising her three kids with work. When she complains it’s about whiny coworkers who hate the kids they work with (specifically she can’t stand it when coworkers medically diagnose a kid with something like adhd and push parents to put the kid on medication). She also can’t stand admin who refuse to discipline kids who are distrupting the class for everyone else. But she doesn’t pretend, like pp that her schedule isn’t great. I agree that teachers should be paid more and admin should go back to disciplining kids. But I do find it disgusting that a teacher would come here and tell us to give teachers more gifts. My kids are in elementary school and we have room parents. We basically fork out money for a holiday gift, a gift on teachers appreciation week, a gift for the teachers birthday and an end of the year gift. Pretty insane if you ask me but I do it regardless. At least my kids teachers seem grateful unlike this OP |
We don’t know from her/his post that OP is a teacher. |