Like, no sh*t times have changed. Doesn’t mean kids need to be on cellphones during class. Doesn’t mean they need them at school. Instead of pushing us forward like the Internet and email did, phones in a classroom setting are only holding kids back and hindering learning. It’s not rocket science to understand this but apparently for you, it is. |
Yes! You should go to a school one day or heck any major city. The amount of people walking with their heads buried in their phone about to walk into other people is crazy. I’ve had multiple experiences of people crossing streets where if I hadn’t stop they would have been hit(pedestrians may have the right a way but they don’t have bumpers). Most of these teens don’t have the best situational awareness generally, and with a phone they have almost none. I pointed it out to my own teen one day who agreed that I was right (and get this, these fools were walking in the dark). |
You’re entitled to your opinion but every parent who buys their child a phone and sends them with it to school obviously thinks the benefit outweighs the cost and that’s most people. If you disagree, don’t give your kid a phone. I haven’t found my child’s learning impacted by phones at all. Have you spent a lot of time observing this personally? How much time have you spent in the classroom making the determination that learning has been hindered and what wasn’t accomplished that would have been if the kids hadn’t had phones in their pockets? |
This is a discussion about banning phones in schools. Kids walking around with phones while crossing the street outside in the dark are literally not in school. You want to ban phones everywhere now? |
DP. The thing about sending your child to school is that you stop being the arbiter of what the benefits and the costs are. If you disagree with what the system determines the rules are, homeschool. |
I’m a teacher, so I observe this happening on an hourly basis. You might THINK your kid isn’t the problem, but I can assure you, 99.9% of kids who show up at school, misuse their phones in class. It affects everyone. I suggest you educate yourself on the issue before attempting to sound like you actually have a clue what it’s like in a classroom these days. |
My kids know which teachers have good classroom management skills, and who is engaging in their classroom. The students absolutely behave differently in classes where the teacher establishes mutual respect and delivers meaningful classroom experiences. |
No, I want them banned in school so as to give them the opportunity to form friendships without devices as the main interest and to give the opportunity to focus on school. In doing so maybe parents will slow the need to give phones to kids so early which will allow them time to mature. |
DP and you're an idiot. Stop trying to shame other teachers. The BEST teachers have problems with phones, but thanks for playing. You sound like an insufferable person. |
Rules in school should be based on child wellbeing not lazy parenting. Smart Phones have no benefit to schooling or child/teen brain development at all. |
Said more bluntly than I would have said, but ai agree. -DP |
| Phones are distracting for everyone. If I take my daughter to a park, and there is a kid who has a phone, 9 times out of 10, before long all the kids are gathered round the kid with the phone. It happens all the time. So even if you don't send your kid with a phone, the one parent that does distracts the entire class. |
That’s right. And my child’s school permits phones to be silent and in their pocket during instruction. I am satisfied with this policy. If you do not agree with your school’s policy, feel free to homeschool your child. |
It is not lazy parenting to provide a teen who travels alone to/from school and after school activities a way to reach a parent or 911 in an emergency. There’s no need to have phones out during instruction, but also no reason to characterize teens carrying phones as lazy parenting. |
Sadly, this is true. I’m a teacher. Nothing a teacher does in class can compete with a phone. Every single students had the phone out of the desk. If I ask to put them away. About 20% completely ignore, the rest just put them in their laps. No support or guidance from admin. Getting more direct often makes some kids flip out. “Phone is life” to some of them. They really struggle with it. |