Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It is what it is. (No, you’re just apathetic or not thinking)
“Life isn’t fair” used in anyway other than to explain why some people are born into wealth and some aren’t, or why some people die young or get cancer and others don’t. It’s is NOT an excuse for adults being unfair. My face turns red hot when I hear this used this way.
Why should she come up with something better? It is what it is, no need to reinvent the wheel. Let not make perfect the enemy of good enough.
Disagree on "It is what it is." I use it professionally when the point is we are stuck with the client's facts that we wish were more favorable for the conclusion the client wants us to reach. It's not apathy or refusal to think; it's stressing the importance of intellectual honesty.