Well, my kid score 5 at an otherwise low-scoring school and I don't supplement at home. The teacher makes some time for her. But I don't really have an explanation other than that. |
In elementary, differentiating to accommodate learners at several levels is possible, because so much of what kids learn is in a small group setting anyway. In MS/HS, this is no longer the case. But in elementary, standard approach is to group kids by level and then tailor small group lessons. I have a kid who is above grade level in math and ELA, in a school with a lot of kids below grade level. We are always prepared to supplement and sometimes do, but she'd be challenged even if we didn't. One aspect of this I really appreciate is that often the enrichment for advanced learners is to deepen understanding, not just add skills. So my advanced reader has learned about grammar and etymology in 1st/2nd grade, not merely been handed more challenging texts (but also that). She's been offered opportunities to apply math concepts to science experiments or building small structures, not just given more advanced worksheets. It helps to have at least 2-3 other kids in class, and you do need your advanced learner to have some ability to be independent, and no real behavioral issues, to get the most out of it. We know by MS we need a bigger cohort of advanced learners-- you aren't going to get a class that differentiates between math levels, especially. |
In summary, you are supplementing even with small groups |
We supplement because kid loves learning and think doing a Beast Academy workbook on a long flight is a treat, not because it's the only way to ensure she stays on grade level. But the supplementing isn't in lieu of school, it's ACTUAL supplementing where we are offering more programming outside of school because she has an interest in it and it plays to her strengths. Do you think kids at highly rated publics or private schools never do Mathnasium or have tutors? Wrong. Parents pay for that stuff MORE at those schools because the culture encourages them to support their kids any way they can. The main difference is that a parent with a kid at a school with lots of kids at or above grade level may supplement to ensure that their kid can keep up, whereas if you are at a school with lots of kids below grade level, your concern is not whether your child can keep pace with all the below-grade-level kids. But I have found the school does a good job of actually teaching to at and above grade level kids despite knowing there are a lot of kids in need of remedial work at the school. Though another thing I know after being at these schools is that kids like my own, who are at and above grade level and have supportive families, also wind up getting more than their share of resources, including teacher time, in part because they are the ones showing up to school everyday, actually doing assignments, etc. Many of the below grade level kids soak up a lot of administrative and SpEd resources but are not necessarily dominating classrooms. There are reasons they are so far behind, including chronic truancy and tardiness, undiagnosed special needs, and unstable home lives. They tend to spend a lot less time in classroom seats which means that a school with a lot of below grade level kids might still have classrooms where most kids are on or above grade level. |
You are absolutely supplementing. Why are you making excuses or trying to rationalize it when you are supplementing. Your kid is doing math workbooks and beast academy no less. And depending on which workbook you are doing, your kid could be working ahead. If your kid is really in 3rd-5th grade and getting 5 on PARCC (above grade level) at a low performing school, which is what this discussion is about, it’s from the workbooks. The teacher is not teaching your kid above grade level math. You are also deluding yourself that majority of families at higher performing schools are supplementing. They are not. They have a large enough cohort of kids to teach on grade level and above grade level. The few kids who are below grade level might get pulled out for extra support. I have friends in good school pyramids in VA so I know. Now families with kids below grade level will use mathnasium or tutors to help their kids. You also have tiger parents who will supplement no matter what but they are not the majority. Also sure, it’s not hard for your kid to be the big fish in the ocean but put her in a higher performing school, and she will be in somewhere in the 50-70% and not the top. How do I know because I know families who moved WOTP from EOTP. Lastly, why don’t you name your school where all these below grade level kids are not showing up and there are a lot of on and above grade level kids only. I’ll wait… |
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No surprises here. Trying to deflect. PP is the one making claims and statements and when asked to ID the school, no response but deflection. |
Interesting. Really wondering whether it’s worth putting up with another year of lamb’s bullshit to keep our feeder spot at DCI. |
I think the no duh answer is that this depends on your options. |