Yes. Most of them are garbage. Many help no one or maybe just a couple people. I can’t believe schools fall for this scam. And in most cases, at least one parent is a lawyer who sets it all up for the kid. It’s BS. |
I've observed, from my limited vantage point, that students, including mine, who had service experience that were difficult to measure and not "packaged", even though it was real and sincere, were rejected from certain schools where service is important, like Georgetown (academic stats being the same). I know kids going to Ivies who put much more strategic effort into their service goals: their non-profits or community service efforts are genuine and way beyond what my kid did, so I'm not complaining. They are also very slick, but maybe that's normal, because they come from very competent and thoughtful people. I also know a kid who got into Yale without any particular effort into service - but he did win a number of science olympiads and was otherwise a very well-rounded student. Service is very appealing to a good number of selective schools, and in my opinion, it must be impossible for an admission officer to tell whether the effort was driven by the kid or by other people. Having said all this, I don't find it upsetting. There are sneaky people everywhere at every stage of life. The barrier mostly comes down to the effort involved in creating this on behalf of a student. There aren't a lot of parents willing to do that, in the grand scheme of things. |
If your DD also did the activity, how in the world could the other mom block your DD from incorporating that into her applications? Bizarre. |
You say that the stats are the same but you don’t know that for certain. You also don’t know about the recommendations or other things in the application. You really can’t know if it was the service aspect that pushed the student over the admissions fence. That’s my point, don’t assume it was some silly, fake effort that you could tell but admissions officers couldn’t. |
Have you actually sat through any college info sessions? No one in admissions is a rocket scientist. |
I have attended at least 10 and never heard from the Dean or senior AOs. The question remains. Is there a distinction between the initial readers and the senior AOs/Deans that make the final decisions? I know most of the senior AOs have more than 15 years of experience based on the admissions podcasts that I listen to. Some are lifers like the Dean’s at Dartmouth and Harvard. |
Admissions decisions are made by committee after presentations from the admissions officers. The deans are reviewing very few applications. |
That makes sense. So is there a difference between readers and AOs? Are people with less than 5 years experience making committee decisions? |
I've read applications. Hundreds my first year alone. It doesn't take long to see it all. And through many hours of training, we got lots of direction from the higher-ups. |
They are Bull Shyat! |
As opposed to you, who through this thoughtful, detailed, well-researched and factually supported post have firmly established yourself as an intellect for the ages, one upon whose words we eagerly await the next gem of wisdom to benefit all human existence. |
“But I’m so much smarter than the AO” I say as my child gets rejected with 4.0/1600 and my 18 straight years of curating their life goes down the toilet. |
True, there was no way for her to block DD from incorporating in DD's college app if she so chose. Yet it is a small independent and talk travels. DD mature enough to realize, "this could just be too much trouble," so politely declined to handle the coding. FWIW, DD had her own project, working one on one with female elementary students on coding. No non-profit, no glossy brochure - just her, the kid, and Zoom. She continued it until school resumed fully in person. |
What I don't get though is why they set up a new non profit. There are plenty of pre existing charities where the student can go and volunteer eg food donation programs, coding for girls, collecting used eye glasses, tutoring. I'd love for admissions officers to turn around and ask the student why they didn't join the volunteer team at AFAC or Martha's Table, and why they thought they as a 17 year old could do better than established charities The other thing that gets me is the kids that get patents, usually in the same industry as mom or dad. Once they get to college, the drive for more patents seems to quickly disappear. |
If they show up to help Martha’s Table they will be one of hundreds of volunteers. Since they are 16, nobody will put them in charge of anything. They will be part of a system. They will have to be humble and start at the bottom and learn how things work. If they start their own org they get to be CEO and SHOW LEADERSHIP AND INITIATIVE, they are in charge and may even have volunteers to boss around. If the school values the BIG TITLE over the actual impact, then it works. If the school cares about actual impact then it doesn’t. |