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Side chicks take notice. Your secret love children are very likely to be ignored by the man and his wife and family. They will pay you and your children dust. Your children will live their whole entire lives facing the shame of what YOU did. You should think about that before having unprotected sex with married men.
No one feels bad for you or your illegitimate kids. |
Some feel bad for the kids... |
True, but everything else the pp wrote is spot on. |
Apparently she went bankrupt back in 2014 during her child support case battle with Matthew Knowles. Today she lives in a 5 bedroom home in an LA suberb. |
| ^^ I meant to add, that's when she was living in a mobile home, back in 2014. |
Exactly. Nevertheless, my siblings contacted her and she responded. Everyone was 40+, so adults acting on their own free will. None of my full siblings asked me beforehand and, once they made contact with 1/2 sibling, they expected me to participate with the fockery. I declined because this 1/2 sibling is a stranger to me and because I didn't want a relationship. I know my siblings and I predicted what would happen and it did happen. They left 1/2 sibling in worse condition than they found her. |
Illegitimate, affair child-- not love child |
Not the bidens. |
pp I don't think you should call anyone "illegitimate" |
Agree. This is not the Elizabethan period. The child is very much legitimate. WTH is an illegitimate child anyway? |
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I helped a cousin find his biological family, and there was some trauma around his conception and adoption. With DNA testing everywhere now, both families knew they’d probably hear from him. It was awkward initially, but everyone said that they just felt a connection even though they were essentially strangers. They’re not close now by any stretch, but my cousin‘s new 90+ year old bio half sister would randomly smile, then tell her family she was thinking about Larlo. Knowing that someone is out there and cares about you is all you can want in life. Making that connection was more important than we realized. And I can see the kid’s point conversely about being rejected.
If they genuinely just wanted a relationship and nothing more, the mom has ruined that chance for now. I hope the kid tries again when he’s 18. |
+1, most children in the US are born to unwed mothers. “Illegitimate” doesn’t exist. |
It's a legal term, like it or not; and the child of unwed parents often does not get the same legal protections and financial protections as siblings born to married parents. |
Have you not noticed how Hunter Biden's children from his marriages are treated differently from his child in Arkansas |
Is this even his kid? What court wouldn't require a father to provide some support to his child? |