What kind of lifestyle do you want, OP? I make $200K, my DH makes about $100K. We have the lifestyle we want and my DH works very hard and it an equal partner to kids, home, etc.
I knew what kind of career my DH had going into our relationship and I also had a clear idea of the kind of HHI we would need to achieve the life that I wanted to live. I also knew that DH was a hard worker and someone who is very focused on family and community. Those are important to me - as much as the money element of what he brings to our lives. ...
So what is it you want? That is a good place to start. You could be with someone who makes a million dollars but who is always traveling, works insane hours, and/or is keen on different priorities than you. Or do you just want someone who keeps you comfortable and you have the credit card and live large? The money is important but it's only part of the equation.
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