I don’t think it is a toxic or unhinged parent - or someone trying to be mean even. Most people who comment on these boards have a limited base of knowledge but declare what they know to be truth - and dash off a quick response in an anonymous Internet forum. Often we have blind spots we don’t realize: in this case, PP probably has a kid in the top math and science track and doesn’t realize, despite that insight, there are likely kids who they don’t know. They even said they don’t know for sure. I also think determining parental toxicity of all the “top privates” from an anonymous board is an overreaction. It reminds me of that meme about Twitter (which could proxy for DCUM); How [DCUM] works: Me: "I prefer mangoes to oranges..." Random Person: "So basically what you're saying is that you hate oranges? You also failed to mention pineapples, bananas and grapefruits. Educate yourself. I am literally shaking.” |
| PP, well-said. |
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Yeah. What was the problem? Maybe negative references or bombed interviews?
He couldn’t time travel back to 1998 where you apparently are posting from. I don’t love DCUM snark, but this was pretty funny… Kudos. |
Many schools still use that scale, including our K8. |
| And do people actually truly know what the median GPA is at Sidwell, GDS, Maret or STA/NCS? I would think that info is not available. All I've heard is that a 4.0 is very rare at these schools and that a 3.5 is respectable. No idea what is true or not. |
It's all speculative. Ideally, you want a 3.7+ from these schools for the most selective colleges. |
Our catholic uses that scale as well. |
OK, thanks. |
| Always keep in mind that the rigor counts as much, if not more -- the kid with a 3.7 who takes all baseline classes will be viewed in a very different light from the one who takes all advanced/accelerated/AP classes. The GPA is viewed in the context of the school, what's available, and to what extent the student pushed themselves. The number alone is meaningless. |
Have not seen this coming from 2 different Big3 schools over the past 2 yrs. GPA is what matters. Rigor not so much. Get the highest GPA you can and be very strategic about which courses your child takes to facilitate this. |
Ideally, yes, but there are instances where kids with GPAs of 3.3 to 3.5 and good test scores are admitted to Ivy League schools and top-tier universities. The rigor of these schools is well-known and considered when evaluating applicants. However, the admissions process varies from year to year. |
From another "Big 3" parent, this is the exact opposite of what we're seeing when it comes to the most selective colleges/universities (aside from kids with clear hooks (legacy and sports). Yes, GPA matters, but these schools look closely at the rigor of their courses in the context of that GPA. |
Not from NCS. You need a 3.8 minimum for top 20s, preferably 3.9. 3.7 won't cut it if you are not hooked. Maybe it's different at Sidwell. |
| Keep in mind this thread and the posts people are responding to are from 2022. Things may have changed, especially regarding GPAs etc needed to get into top colleges. |
Sidwell isn’t inflated like NCS so yes, it’s different |