Ladies, have you ever been hit on by

[Anonymous]

by a female, but the signs started out subtle until they weren’t ? Say it’s someone you suspect might bat for both teams but hasn’t directly told you (as far as you know they’re in a heterosexual marriage), but she seems to be touchy with you or compliments you a lot? At one point is it just being nice versus the woman is actually attracted to you?

[Anonymous]

Yes, many times. Only one married one though. What do you want to know. I’m straight if that is relevant to your question.

[Anonymous]

Yes, this happened to me years ago at work but I also got hit on by men and I just made it very clear I had no interest. Some people have a hard time hearing no.

[Anonymous]

Yes, is there a follow up question?

[Anonymous]

My wife did once or so she claims. Took a while before she told me but our old neighbor apparently let her jumpsuit hit the floor in front of my wife. That's all I know. Sorry

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My wife did once or so she claims. Took a while before she told me but our old neighbor apparently let her jumpsuit hit the floor in front of my wife. That's all I know. Sorry

I've gotten nude in front of many women that I'm friends with. All it means is that I'm comfortable with my body. I'm not trying to come onto them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:by a female, but the signs started out subtle until they weren’t ? Say it’s someone you suspect might bat for both teams but hasn’t directly told you (as far as you know they’re in a heterosexual marriage), but she seems to be touchy with you or compliments you a lot? At one point is it just being nice versus the woman is actually attracted to you?

Haha, you’re describing me, except I feel like I do the opposite with my girl crush. I used to not think twice about pinging her about getting together until one day I realized, “Wait. She hot”— and now I almost actively avoid her because it’s not a thing that could actually exist in this universe and I do not want anyone to know and I do wish to stay married. Plus I don’t KNOW if I bat for both teams. I just don’t have any real fantasy about other men because I have one already. Might just be the intrigue of the unknown.

[Anonymous]

Yes, a married sorority sister on a reunion trip. I think too much wine led her there but it was clear she had been with other women. I briefly considered it from a new experience stand point but I said no. When I got home I made sure my husband reminded me why being heterosexual works for me.

[Anonymous]

When I was single I was hit on a few times and did explore it once because the woman was really stunning and I was always curious. I didn’t tell her it was my first time so I guess she was somewhat disappointed because I was pretty clueless on FF oral. That was a long time ago and I’ve been happily married for 16 years.

[Anonymous]

Many times, found it flattering to be approached, flirted with and a few times undressed by my seducer. I’m a married woman who identifies as heteroflexible and my husband approves. I don’t go out purposely to mislead women. We have found house parties to be great fun, and a safe place to enjoy this fun.

Prior to COVID our circle of friends hosted house parties regularly. It was great fun to wear my sexy lingerie, let my hair down and socialize with friends and meet new people. Some parties I’d find myself in the arms of a woman wearing only a smile, panty and heels, other parties my husband enjoyed me on his arm (knowing that I was his to unwrap).

[Anonymous]

Ha, multiple gay women have told me they'd never try with someone who looks like me because I scream straightness.

I asked one what she meant and she shrugged and said "You have long nails, think about it..."

Me: "Huh?-OHHH."

[Anonymous]

Yes, once by a friend and once that I remember by an acquaintance. I'm heterosexual and married.

[Anonymous]

No, the one time I was hit on by a woman she was subtle, but I understood and told her I wasn't interested in her that way.

[Anonymous]

Yes but because she was in a heterosexual marriage I actually think her flirtation was pretty overt and I just failed to read it as intended because it didn't occur to me that she would be hitting on me. I later learned she was bisexual and that she was in an open marriage and everything clicked into place. At the time I really just thought she was a super touchy-feely person with poor boundaries (I actually still think she has poor boundaries but now I have much more context for it than I did at the time).

[Anonymous]

Yeah, back when I was younger. I think I must have an ambiguous vibe. Not a big deal, not my thing, but Ive always found it flattering to have someone find me attractive. I do have a lot of lesbian friends, but maybe everyone does.