Am I the only person out there who never looks up exes on social media?

[Anonymous]

Could easily go a few more clicks and find some, but no desire to see what they look like or who they married. First, I have been married for a long time so anyone else is ages ago. Second, not crazy about who I was in my 20s and a lot of insecurities I carried so would rather forget that time of my life. Nothing against any of them, just don't care.

[Anonymous]

I don’t. I just don’t care. They’re exes for a reason.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Could easily go a few more clicks and find some, but no desire to see what they look like or who they married. First, I have been married for a long time so anyone else is ages ago. Second, not crazy about who I was in my 20s and a lot of insecurities I carried so would rather forget that time of my life. Nothing against any of them, just don't care.

Then why are you posting about it here? If you truly didn't care you'd not think about it AT ALL, and not be here, needing our approval.

[Anonymous]

I don't either. I don't care. Im' sure they are all married and various levels of happy.

[Anonymous]

My mom looked up my ex-boyfriend from college last time I went out to visit. I have been married for 13 years and have four children. It was surprisingly painful. I have no desire to repeat the experience.

[Anonymous]

I don’t. I find it super creepy.

[Anonymous]

I don’t.

[Anonymous]

I don’t but I was sad to hear that an ex died last year after a long illness. But otherwise I don’t try to find them as the past is that past but I wish them well.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Could easily go a few more clicks and find some, but no desire to see what they look like or who they married. First, I have been married for a long time so anyone else is ages ago. Second, not crazy about who I was in my 20s and a lot of insecurities I carried so would rather forget that time of my life. Nothing against any of them, just don't care.

Then why are you posting about it here? If you truly didn't care you'd not think about it AT ALL, and not be here, needing our approval.

+1 I agree. Such an odd question about something you claim to never do. That's like me asking if anyone here ever goes crabbing and then going on and on about why I don't.

[Anonymous]

Doesn't have to be a brag. It could have come up in conversation and she discovered all of her friends did it.

[Anonymous]

I have over 10 of my exes as friends on FB. It's NBD.

[Anonymous]

I don't do look up my exes but sometimes random people from HS just to see what they're doing and how they turned out. I live in somewhat of a lawyer bubble where everyone around me is lawyers so it's just interesting to see different career paths.

[Anonymous]

I never have either. Not that they aren’t good guys - but I did my time with them and have no interest. I don’t ever look up former friends either.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have over 10 of my exes as friends on FB. It's NBD.

You again! And your wimp husband goes along with it because he's so mature.

[Anonymous]

I’m friends with most of my exes so I already see them pretty regularly.