Troll is what you call people who are posting false information online in order to mislead people for the fun of it, for political gain or other reason. Fact: Everyone is required to take four years of math in high school in order to graduate. You cannot be exempt from that even if you finish Calc BC. MCPS will give you a choice of Montgomery College or going to another MCPS HS that has "higher" math. You are also welcome to take math electives to fulfill that 4 year requirement. Every school knows this. Every counselor knows this. Everyone in MCPS central should know this but it's possible they do not. |
We don't need anything more academically. The kids get the advantages in the soft skills and colleges rank them higher because of this. |
Huh? |
Private school parent here. I completely agree that the schools are less rigorous. We were at bullis for senior year and my DD just hangs out with her friends all day and gets A’s. No homework—nothing. They even had her repeat geometry despite the fact that she finished BC Calc at Whitman the year before.
She got into MIT and Harvard. That’s the only reason she went. And it was much easier because everyone around her was stupid as dirt. One of them ate it. |
Also DD dated nothing but black dudes at Whitman and hasn’t dated one since she went to Bullis. Told her it actively disgusted her. Certainly much less racial diversity than Whitman. Bullis is 4% black and Whitman is too, but somehow it just feels more black. You know what I mean??? |
There have been so many studies on this, especially since the college admissions scandle. Just Google "private school advantage in college admissions" or something of that nature. The advantage will never go away (unfortunately). The UC are really good at helping and insulating themselves for centuries if not millenia. The categories for college admissions will change with time, but there will always be a way to give slight advantage to already advantaged folks. It's always been that way. Remember, women began entering the workforce in droves in the 70s and still are represented at 3% in top jobs, have unequal pay in almost every industry, and still take on the lions share of work at home. White men however still have the advantage in every category. Why do you think public vs private schools is somehow going to magically escape human psychology and be fair? I'm from the UMC and slightly pierce into UC circles. Of course, I see the advantages and want my kids to have them. I will likely never be UC, but my kids definitely have a chance. And they do have the mannerisms, peer group, and education to support it. |
My Father-in-Law grew up poor and is now pretty wealthy. He has been encouraging us to send our kids to private school (especially high school) because in life, it's truly who you know and not what you know that makes a difference. This is how life works for the most part, whether we like it or not. |
Exactly. The quality of education sucks. But that doesn’t matter. |
+1 All these Feds working in the area are highly educated and smart, yet make no money. It takes a lot more than education to be wealthy. The wealthy know that. |
The quality of education in top private schools sucks? Are you delusional? |
I am sold. I’m taking my kid out of private school and sending them to Whitman. I was blinded by promises that aren’t real. I’m glad I read this thread.
I’m sick of DS getting shit education. |
Well.... no really. It's a different type of education. If you want them to learn multi-variable Calculus (or difficult math in public school), I have to question why. I am a scientist and the last time I used it was to pass the AP exam in HS. On the other hand, if you want them to learn soft skills (learned in private schools), the last time I used that was today dealing with some colleagues. So which skills are more relevant? What exactly is an "education" to you? In Spanish the phrase "mala educación" or "bad education" literally means poor manners. This idea of soft skills/ private school advantage transcends cultural boundaries and time. You can find similar things the world over. |
All the top private schools offer BC calc. |
Actually what's interesting is that there are wealthy people in public schools in this area especially the Ws. It's all about who your child becomes friends with, however the likelihood that your child mingles with the rich kids is higher in private school. |
Yes, but you clearly missed the point. |