To be or not to be in a relationship.

[Anonymous]

I’ve been on tinder a few months after a breakup and I swiped right on a guy I thought seemed like a match. Turns out we went it high school together, and he. Recognized me. but I didn’t recognize him from his pictures. After looking at my yearbook, I knew who he was. Anyway, we’ve been seeing each other and reconnecting. He was clear with me and said he wanted to be in a relationship with me. However, I am very hesitant. He knows this and said to take some time to think about it. I’m really starting to think that I shouldn’t get into a relationship with him since I’m unsure and indecisive about it. On the other hand, I feel like he would be a great guy to pass up. Has anyone been in a similar situation? I’m conflicted as to what to do because I like him and I can see a future with him, but I was not expecting to meet someone so soon after my last relationship.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’ve been on tinder a few months after a breakup and I swiped right on a guy I thought seemed like a match. Turns out we went it high school together, and he. Recognized me. but I didn’t recognize him from his pictures. After looking at my yearbook, I knew who he was. Anyway, we’ve been seeing each other and reconnecting. He was clear with me and said he wanted to be in a relationship with me. However, I am very hesitant. He knows this and said to take some time to think about it. I’m really starting to think that I shouldn’t get into a relationship with him since I’m unsure and indecisive about it. On the other hand, I feel like he would be a great guy to pass up. Has anyone been in a similar situation? I’m conflicted as to what to do because I like him and I can see a future with him, but I was not expecting to meet someone so soon after my last relationship.

Yup and I married him. I decided on my own time but I was all in once I did.

However, I did not meet him right after a breakup.