Book to help marital doldrums (15+ years)

[Anonymous]

Fairly straightforward - married 15 years, 2 children. Still happy and committed. Just sort of dull and unromantic at times. Can anyone recommend a book to help reinfuse a little romance into the relationship?

[Anonymous]

If you’re a man go buy yourself a copy of “she comes first“. My husband read it after finding it in a vacation house; we were around 14 years in at that point. His technique in most things was some of the best I’ve ever had, I had quite a bit of experience and I wouldn’t have married him if we didn’t mesh well but after he read that book he turned me into an insatiable nymphomaniac. The fire he lit lasted for five or six years and it has only started to wane now but I think that has more to do with our age than anything else.

If you’re a woman buy a copy of the book and leave it somewhere he can find it.

[Anonymous]

OP here. Thanks...I was thinking a little more relationship, a little less sexual it will keep this in mind.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. Thanks...I was thinking a little more relationship, a little less sexual it will keep this in mind.

Pp here; it’s easier to feel super loving and want to gaze into eyes when you can still taste each other on your lips. Remember your torrid 20’s?

Aside from that try this; it works.
http://36questionsinlove.com/

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you’re a man go buy yourself a copy of “she comes first“. My husband read it after finding it in a vacation house; we were around 14 years in at that point. His technique in most things was some of the best I’ve ever had, I had quite a bit of experience and I wouldn’t have married him if we didn’t mesh well but after he read that book he turned me into an insatiable nymphomaniac. The fire he lit lasted for five or six years and it has only started to wane now but I think that has more to do with our age than anything else.

If you’re a woman buy a copy of the book and leave it somewhere he can find it.

Sadly, that book did not work on my XW, but it did have that effect on women I've dated after the divorce, so the effort to improve my skills was not completely wasted.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you’re a man go buy yourself a copy of “she comes first“. My husband read it after finding it in a vacation house; we were around 14 years in at that point. His technique in most things was some of the best I’ve ever had, I had quite a bit of experience and I wouldn’t have married him if we didn’t mesh well but after he read that book he turned me into an insatiable nymphomaniac. The fire he lit lasted for five or six years and it has only started to wane now but I think that has more to do with our age than anything else.

If you’re a woman buy a copy of the book and leave it somewhere he can find it.

Another man who bought this, mastered it, my wife was still uninterested but it did help in the world of AP sex.

OP, another vote for the need to repair the physical aspect of marriage and the rest should follow. Sex is the glue.