Women who are sleeping with multiple men

[mybestlife]

If you are sleeping with multiple men concurrently, do you enjoy it? I've always been a one at a time kind of person. Life circumstances are bringing about a situation where I'm considering having multiple partners. What's your experience with this been?

[Anonymous]

In the same bed at the same time, or one at a time on different days?

[Anonymous]

Are you young enough to get pregnant? That would be a consideration for me. If you got pregnant, it could be awkward if you didn't know whose baby it was.

I had a situation a bunch of years ago where I ended up having sex with two longtime friends-with-benefits in the same month. (I'd known one for many years, but hadn't slept with him in ages, and had dated the second one a bit more recently, but he was flaky, so I was keeping my options open.) I ended up getting accidentally pregnant the next year by someone I was dating, and was very, very glad I hadn't gotten pregnant during that crazy month, or it would have been really awkward trying to figure out whose kid it was.

[Anonymous]

Sent you a PM

[Anonymous]

Do you have kids?

[Anonymous]

Trashy

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Trashy

Sexist

[Anonymous]

For me it’s always been confusing. But I think I never gave myself permission to be free with myself that way. I think it can be managed in a healthy way. Everyone does need to know about the openness of your relationships though. No secrets. And I realize that’s a double standard that men don’t usually follow. But I think it’s healthier mentally and physically to be honest that you’re not monogamous.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Trashy

Trashy for Women and Men. It's very risky in many ways ranging from STD's, UTIs, cancer etc. etc.

Not interested in someone that doesn't take care of their health. Mine is too important.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Trashy

Trashy for Women and Men. It's very risky in many ways ranging from STD's, UTIs, cancer etc. etc.

Not interested in someone that doesn't take care of their health. Mine is too important.

So lest say someone has sex 10 times a month with one person. or 5 times a month with two people.

the same risks apply. if the two other partners are also having sex, then there is an increase in the potential for an STD if one or both is having unprotected sex.

[Anonymous]

When I was in college sleeping with a couple of guys, not at the same time, was not out of the ordinary but this was before STD’s were a big issue. Now I wouldn’t consider it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Trashy

Sexist

Honestly, many guys think it's trashy too if a guy is sleeping with multiple women at the same time. The idea that he's a "big stud" is basically high school era gossip lore. Many men use the term "manslut" to describe a guy like that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Trashy

Trashy for Women and Men. It's very risky in many ways ranging from STD's, UTIs, cancer etc. etc.

Not interested in someone that doesn't take care of their health. Mine is too important.

Risky, even from the other men. People (men and women both) get shot over these arrangements.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Trashy

Sexist

Honestly, many guys think it's trashy too if a guy is sleeping with multiple women at the same time. The idea that he's a "big stud" is basically high school era gossip lore. Many men use the term "manslut" to describe a guy like that.

I have never heard a man use this term. You learn something new every day!

[Anonymous]

If you're sleeping with anyone without protecting yourself you're at risk. Be it one person or one hundred people.

I'm not currently, but I have previously dated several men at a time, and have slept with some within the same 24 hour span. Never had a threesome though.

The most important part is being honest and keeping your own condoms on hand.