If you start having sex...

[Anonymous]

When you’ve been dating someone less than 3 months and have started having sex, do you normally communicate daily? How often do you expect to get sex in the beginning (i.e. weekly, twice a week, etc.)?

[Anonymous]

By three months, we are communicating daily. Not all day long, endless texts (I'm in my 40s with a job) but at least a daily check in.

[Anonymous]

“Expect to get sex” says a lot right there.

[Anonymous]

If I’ve been dating someone three months and we aren’t talking every day, then I see that as an issue.

[Anonymous]

Why map it out? There are no rules.

[Anonymous]

Not daily like a check in, but by 3 months I either wanted to text him when something funny happened or something made me think of him, or I moved along. I could see that being daily communication in practice, but it's not a rule.

[Anonymous]

A daily text is normal but only fun stuff or a question about plans, not needy stuff. Frequency of sex is entirely occasion driven so if we get together for a date twice a week sex is usually on the dance card. But if we see each other five times a week we might enjoy sex three times.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:“Expect to get sex” says a lot right there.

+1. "Get sex" is a very strange way of thinking about it.

[Anonymous]

If you're 3 months in and you're not having sex every time you meet, then you're doing it wrong.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you're 3 months in and you're not having sex every time you meet, then you're doing it wrong.

+1 and if you have to ask, then something is definitely amiss

[Anonymous]

Every relationship is different.

[Anonymous]

We text each other constantly throughout the day. We also have a LOT of sex. Works well for us.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:“Expect to get sex” says a lot right there.

+1. "Get sex" is a very strange way of thinking about it.

Sounds like a woman who is drip drip dripping out just enough to hook him, and who will likely close shop after baby is born.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:When you’ve been dating someone less than 3 months and have started having sex, do you normally communicate daily? How often do you expect to get sex in the beginning (i.e. weekly, twice a week, etc.)?

You communicate the same amount as you have sex. So sex once a week = one text a week.

[Anonymous]

I, for one, will answer OP's questions:

1. No.

2. Weekly.