Donor Eggs -- how long did it take?

[Anonymous]

If you used donor eggs, how many cycles did it take before you had success? I have had a horrific 4+ years of trying for #1. After multiple cycles of failed implantation, an ERA showed window was off. By then eggs were done (had 2 pregnancies but both ended in miscarriage) so I have moved on to donor egg/donor embryo.

I was able to adopt 3 high quality embryos that my clinic said would have 70% success rate. I figured good embryo + ERA proven protocol would = easy success. Of course Im sitting here on the heels of a negative beta from the first FET.

I have 1 3AA and 1 4BB embryo left. My wtf appt is this coming week and I expect my RE to say Im sorry but you were the unlucky 30%, lets stay the course. What can I ask, what else can be done? I am so frustrated.

[Anonymous]

2nd cycle with embryos from the same donor, frozen donor eggs. We did ERA after the first donor cycle failed, it showed that I needed one extra day of progesterone and that worked. I must say that after 5 failed OE transfers I was shocked when the first donor cycle also failed.
Wish you good luck, OP.

[Anonymous]

There are so many variables it's hard to know what the odd are.. but I got pregnant on the first time.

[Anonymous]

For me it was first time. I had previously transferred one of my own pgs tested and that didn't work...no rhyme or reason for this one to work.

[Anonymous]

Mine worked first time, but embryo was tested and normal. A little less more than half were normal so if we hadn’t tested there was a good chance it would not have worked the first time.

[Anonymous]

Mine worked the second time. second/different donor.

[Anonymous]

OP here, thanks for your replies.

Since there are only 2 embryos and each FET costs $, I asked my RE if he would consider putting both back. He said yes. I feel like the time delays are wearing. If this next FET doesnt work the plan is to move to one fresh donor eggs cycle but I still think these embryos have a chance.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here, thanks for your replies.

Since there are only 2 embryos and each FET costs $, I asked my RE if he would consider putting both back. He said yes. I feel like the time delays are wearing. If this next FET doesnt work the plan is to move to one fresh donor eggs cycle but I still think these embryos have a chance.

I transferred 2 morula after my first failed DE cycle. It worked and I have a single DD.