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I already kind of do not and my wife isn't even 40 yet..
Not overweight, but not perky either I'm kind of unhappy about this because I just realized it today |
I bet you aren’t that hot to her either. |
| No I dont but we've both aged and gained weight which has changed our bodies. Luckily were not nudists so unless were having sex we dont have to see each other naked often. I'm the wife also. |
| Yes, until recently she had almost a perfect body - in my opinion. Lately her butt is beginning to sag. A few other minor imperfections. But I see the glass as half full. I feel very lucky! (Most ladies are overly concerned IMO) |
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Given that our choices are to continue to age, or die, I choose aging! Happens to all of us. Instead of concentrating on the negative:
These wide hips birthed 3 wonderful human beings. These wrinkles/gray hair show how I've lasted through stressful times. These thick thighs support my body as I support my family. Etc. |
| Very few people look great naked. I love my husband, he’s not perfect physically but I love him. And I love having sex with him. That’s it. |
What are you going to do about it? |
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Yes, DH is 43 and HOT, especially without clothes on.
signed, very lucky and happy wife |
| After 30 years, still amazed at times. Breasts sag with stretch marks - 3 kids. Slight stomach and C section scar. Few patches of stray hairs. But better than most 30 year olds |
| I love it! Aged great after dealing with me and having kids |
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You sound pretty dim, OP, but maybe you're just being lazy in how you write.
My wife is 38 and we have 3 kids. Physically, she has a number of negatives. I know I do, too. I focus on the positives. I focus on what does turn me on. She's naughty and enthusiastic and we have awesome sex. |
| Very much so. She’s still in shape but the “battle scars” are there and they tell our story... slight bit of loose skin on her belly from being pregnant, stretch marks, c-section scar, scar from one of our pre-kid adventures... still takes my breath away. |
| My wife was never perfect. Too skinny in college. Too pale - hardly tanned. But to me she was great and we both lift weights together. I think after 28 years that’s the key for us. Maintained tight bodies - after 3 kids she has done better than me. We found these health clubs to be over sold. |
| Oh heck yes. 49 and Christina Hendricks shaped. (DW gave birth to one child.) She thinks she’s fat. To me, I feel she’s perfect. I tell her all the time she looks great, but she’s self conscious. |
| That's ok. I liked how your wife looked naked last night. |