Friend ignoring bday wishes

[Anonymous]

My friend’s bday was the other day. She responded to no one’s texts and then posted on Facebook today “if you wished me happy birthday and I didn’t respond it’s because my inner Mercury in Aries hates attention” or some dumb shit. Wtf?

[Anonymous]

I can’t help you as I would literally never be friends with this person

[Anonymous]

ok. Next year don't send her a happy birthday. No biggie. If she's a good friend otherwise, ignore. If she's not a good friend, then stop being friends.

[Anonymous]

Then follow her wishes and and give her no further attention.

[Anonymous]

Comment and tell her she’s a grown ass woman who talks about astrology so clearly she is a little desperate for attention

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I can’t help you as I would literally never be friends with this person

+ everything

How old are you, OP?

[Anonymous]

It’s Facebook. No one cares that you took 2 seconds to say happy birthday. I always thank each person individually because I’m weird like that. I have never considered caring whether someone responds when I type “Happy Birthday” on their page. Unless you are 15, you really need to consider behaving like an actual adult. It’s Facebook, ffs.

[Anonymous]

I think that’s a hilarious comment!

I find the culture of FB birthday wishes very tedious. Am I supposed to like each one? Is it okay to just do a single thank you. Do I need to wait a certain number of days before I can stop thanking individual belated wishes?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It’s Facebook. No one cares that you took 2 seconds to say happy birthday. I always thank each person individually because I’m weird like that. I have never considered caring whether someone responds when I type “Happy Birthday” on their page. Unless you are 15, you really need to consider behaving like an actual adult. It’s Facebook, ffs.

No one wished her happy bday on Facebook. We all texted (no one called to chat since it was a workday) and she didn’t acknowledge texts. She just made a post on fb in response.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think that’s a hilarious comment!

I find the culture of FB birthday wishes very tedious. Am I supposed to like each one? Is it okay to just do a single thank you. Do I need to wait a certain number of days before I can stop thanking individual belated wishes?

I’m not talking about her not responding to fb posts. She didn’t respond to personal texts/emails.

[Anonymous]

OK? Who cares? Move on with your day.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think that’s a hilarious comment!

I find the culture of FB birthday wishes very tedious. Am I supposed to like each one? Is it okay to just do a single thank you. Do I need to wait a certain number of days before I can stop thanking individual belated wishes?

I’m not talking about her not responding to fb posts. She didn’t respond to personal texts/emails.

OK...yes, and? How may we help you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My friend’s bday was the other day. She responded to no one’s texts and then posted on Facebook today “if you wished me happy birthday and I didn’t respond it’s because my inner Mercury in Aries hates attention” or some dumb shit. Wtf?

Hopefully no one responded or reacted to her post.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Comment and tell her she’s a grown ass woman who talks about astrology so clearly she is a little desperate for attention

Why is astrology more or less silly to talk about then any other commonly shared beliefs in this country?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think that’s a hilarious comment!

I find the culture of FB birthday wishes very tedious. Am I supposed to like each one? Is it okay to just do a single thank you. Do I need to wait a certain number of days before I can stop thanking individual belated wishes?

I’m not talking about her not responding to fb posts. She didn’t respond to personal texts/emails.

OK...yes, and? How may we help you?

Some of these responses are bizarre. Like it’s not rude to just completely blow off your friends nice messages. You’re not an Aries, you’re just rude. How hard is it to send a text that says “thanks!”?