If you used to give presents to your now-adult nieces and nephews, do you still?

[Anonymous]

And if not, when did you stop

[Anonymous]

I think I will continue to give until they have their own kids. Then I will give to their kids.

[Anonymous]

I give money now... somewhat begrudgingly if I'm being honest. I do so because their parents give my children gifts and because my other sibling gives gifts so I don't want to be the outlier! But as PP said, I think when they are married and/or have kids I will just give to the kids.

[Anonymous]

I stopped when they married.

[Anonymous]

None of my nieces or nephews are out of college yet but I think I probably won't stop. I like buying presents or giving things; it basically is my love language to give. We're all pretty tight, I see them all almost once a day or at least a few times a week right now. Even if they get married I will probably keep giving them gifts, add in their spouse and then add in the kids when they come along.

[Anonymous]

College graduation ended all gifts, both Christmas and birthdays. My kids were the oldest, so I told the aunts and uncles (my siblings) to stop. Their kids were right behind mine.

[Anonymous]

I stopped at their 21st birthdays - full adults. I have never received a thank you note for gifts or a birthday card from my nieces or nephews so I feel no regrets for stopping the gifting to them.

[Anonymous]

I am 32 and on my Dad's side we stopped when you graduated college or turned 22. On my Mom's side there are 30+ nieces and nephews so it was always a secret santa.

[Anonymous]

Stopped at 18ish.

[Anonymous]

Birthdays - stopped at high school graduation. Christmas- will stop when youngest graduates from high school (same age as DS). They are still in middle school. I would feel weird not including all the nephews for Christmas presents when I still give to the younger ones.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:None of my nieces or nephews are out of college yet but I think I probably won't stop. I like buying presents or giving things; it basically is my love language to give. We're all pretty tight, I see them all almost once a day or at least a few times a week right now. Even if they get married I will probably keep giving them gifts, add in their spouse and then add in the kids when they come along.

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