Hoping for a transfer tomorrow

[Anonymous]

Tomorrow I’m hopefully doing an embryo transfer of a donor egg. This is my 6th and last try. I thought it was east with a donor but nope this is my 3rd donor and each time we only get either 0 or 1 blasts. I actually got pregnant this winter from my transfer and had a miscarriage. Anyway, I’m just venting because every time I have a transfer scheduled I get a call with one more day needed or nothing at all.

[Anonymous]

Good luck, OP. I will be thinking about you and wishing you the best.

[Anonymous]

OP best of luck! That is such a hard and scary situation. I hope everything works out this time for you!

[Anonymous]

Good luck!!!!! Sending you good vibes.

[Anonymous]

Fingers crossed and good luck to you!! <3

[Anonymous]

Sending good vibes!!!!

[Anonymous]

Good luck!!!

[Anonymous]

Fingers crossed this is your donor’s best cycle ever—good luck, hun!

[Anonymous]

good luck!! you’ve got this!

[Anonymous]

Thanks everyone. Unfortunately, I got a call driving to the transfer today that out of the 5 that fertilized 3 degenerated and 2 are morulas. I had the option of transferring both of those today or waiting to see if one makes it to blast tomorrow. 3 of my own cycles with only 2 not great blasts and 3 donor cycles with 3 different donors and maybe only 2 blasts. We are done after this and I wonder how hard it will be to get the money back from our shared risk. I’m sure they weren’t expecting donor eggs not to work too.

[Anonymous]

I am so sorry OP. This is devastating. Sending you hugs.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am so sorry OP. This is devastating. Sending you hugs.

Thanks. I’m hoping I’ll have something to transfer tomorrow.

[Anonymous]

OP, I'm so sorry to hear that! Crossing my fingers that tomorrow's transfer is able to go ahead and is successful!

[Anonymous]

Nothing to transfer today as both arrested. I’d strongly suggest to anyone that has trouble getting blasts to get their dh checked ASAP. My clinic hasn’t done a thing except sperm motility and fragmentation which showed up fine. We are past my comfort zone in carrying a pregnancy so we probably don’t have time now to investigate further.