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I must be a moron. I thought things were going well. We were talking every day and now suddenly he's ignoring me. I don't even know what I did wrong.
It's fine if he's not interested in me anymore, but this sucks. It's like people forget other people have feelings. |
| It's the shinynewglittersparkles syndrome. People think that there is something better out there. |
We live in a dog eat dog country where nobody gives a crap. |
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Repeat after me:
He’s a jackass, and thank goodness I dodged that one. Repeat 29 times. And as many more times as you need to. |
.. Clearly. So many assholes. |
You think this is something new, with men in dating and relationships? Ha! |
Thanks. I just feel so stupid. |
Okay, you get until midnight to stay with that thought. Then it’s gone. He doesn’t get to occupy your head space one minute into tomorrow. Today you can feel stupid; tomorrow you’ll be forgetful.
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We've all been there.
From a stable/loving/respectful married side, can I just tell you...get some heat off of the assholes and enjoy. Don't marry them, don't have kids with them, but get some and have some fun nights out on the town and live it up. This is weirdly good stuff; don't miss it. |
I don't date. Like at all. Guys really don't pay attention to me like that. .So it's new to me. |
I'm going to try my best. |
Having my feelings hurt isn't enjoyable. Im not a hookup girl which is probably why he ditched me. I want someone stable/loving/respectful |
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Read this book. I swear I learned so much from it. I wouldn’t be married today without it. https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/88965.Mars_and_Venus_on_a_Date
Hugs, and I’m sorry you’re dealing with this. |
I get it. And you will have that someday. But once you have it, your entire life will be stable, loving and respectful. Part of you will want to go out and make some probably-bad choices, but you can't. But right now, you CAN! So keep pursuing what you ultimately want, but the mistakes along the way are all part of it. At least get some good kisses and free meals out of it. |
| Did you meet him online? |