Are the men in OKCupid particularly awful?

[Anonymous]

They all seem like neckbeards and weirdos. Other sites are better?

[Anonymous]

I just have to ask... what exactly are these guys doing that's so awful? I am a 54yo male on OKC and try to be respectful, courteous, and kind to everyone I message - and I NEVER am searching for hookups or ONS.

So many women have written in their profile: "Please be honest..." "Please write more than 'DTF?' in your message..." and my fav: "If your profile is you shirtless with a fish you caught please don't bother..."

Is this really what most guys do? If so, they're giving us a bad rep!!!

[Anonymous]

I wrote here a few day the guys 40-58 with graduate degrees mostly look like axe murderers and no one believed me.

The women look great so PP who is 54, you should be having fun!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wrote here a few day the guys 40-58 with graduate degrees mostly look like axe murderers and no one believed me.

The women look great so PP who is 54, you should be having fun!

Guy: women on Bumble looked better and seems to be way more on Match.

[Anonymous]

What do people think about when men have pictures with their kids? A lot of guys in that age group are dads.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:What do people think about when men have pictures with their kids? A lot of guys in that age group are dads.

It is much more inappropriate when women post photos of their kids. A magnet for pedos and perverts. I saw one in which a woman posted photos of her two teenage daughters - just asking for trouble.

[Anonymous]

I don't think kid pictures are appropriate.

[Anonymous]

Well, I married a guy I met on OKCupid.....

[Anonymous]

OKC is one of the older apps. Online dating, which is about technology, benefits from new and innovative ways of connecting. There will be another app to replace Bumble soon.

[Anonymous]

What's a neckbeard?

[Anonymous]

I'm a married woman who was on OKC and was upfront that I was married. I was amazed at how many men contacted me stating they were also married, but their profile indicated they were single and made no mention of being married.

[Anonymous]

I saw at least 3-4 guys on OKC who claimed they were on Ninja Warrior. Thought that was weird.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Well, I married a guy I met on OKCupid.....

Me too! I think I was on OKC for two weeks or so. I received tons of messages from men, but only two guys were “normal”. I married one of them

[Anonymous]

On average, I thought the men on OKC were less attractive than the men on Bumble but better educated than the men on Tinder.

[Anonymous]

I met my “friend” on OKCupid over two years ago. We tried to say goodbye a few times (life circumstances, etc) but we are madly in love with each other. It’s a bit crazy. He is an amazing man.