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My kid doesn’t want a party for his birthday this year (yassss!) so I thought I would just bring really cool goodie bags for his classmates on the day of.
I need some ideas. Geared more towards boys but not totally uncool for the girls too. Willing to spend up to $10 per goodie bag (though $5 would be a much better deal )
Edibles are ok as well as stuff. |
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OP, I would ask the teacher 1) If this is ok 2) If YES, how would she like to have them distributed (i.e: give to teacher to hand out at the end of the day.
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| Why do you want to do this? Your kids doesn't want a party. Take a box of cupcakes, celebrate at home and call it a day. |
I have given out small boxes/bags of LEGO as party favors for the last couple of years (2-3 grade) and they’ve always been a hit. You could gender specific, or neutral and both boys and girls like them
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Why doesn’t he want a party? Is there a problem? How old is he? The LEGO idea is good, but definitely check with the teacher first.
I’m curious why you want to do this. |
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Our school doesn’t allow classroom parties. Make sure yours does.
I’ve seen a lot of gift cards to movie theaters or ice cream places. |
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In lieu of a party, is your kid just wanting to take 2 or 3 of his best buddies to, say, laser tag, rick climbing, or the like? Why no party?
Does he even want to do this whole class goodie bag thing? |
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I don't think it's a good idea to bring in a 5-10 dollar gift for every kid in the class.
Maybe for a younger kid in, say, an in-home daycare, but not a third grader. |
Of course he doesn't want to do it, but mom wants to be "COOL." Note how many times she points out how badly she wants to be "cool." |
| Not appropriate and unfair to the teacher to have to deal with this. |
| Classic dcum. Nine responses, and only one actually answered the question asked. Never change, dcum!! |
I see what you did there. You made it #10 unhelpful response. |
| So I am with the other pp that don't think the goodie bag idea is a great one. But maybe you could ask the teacher if there is something the class could use like new balls/equipment for recess of games for the kids to play on rainy days. You could donate those to the class to honor your son's birthday. |
Because it's a terrible idea to begin with. Should we give people advice on how to jump off a bridge or how to get fired? |
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I have twins that age (BG)
Things that appeal to both genders: Slime (but the teacher will kill you.) Card games (there's a whole bunch of $5 card games you can get on amazon) Smelly markers Figit things, spinners, clickers etc. Squishy things (those soft animals/food shapes etc) Magic 8 balls Slinkies |