I'm so sad

[Anonymous]

IVF worked! Until I started bleeding at 6 weeks. This is so awful, I feel like this was my one shot and it's gone. I got my hopes up after a first good ultrasound. My body hurts and my heart hurts. This is so hard and so unfair.

[Anonymous]

It sucks OP. You aren’t alone.

[Anonymous]

Are you sure it's a mc, op? Ultrasound confirmed? Not to give false reassurance, but there's many things that can cause bleeding without meaning a miscarriage, like a subchorionic hematoma.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Are you sure it's a mc, op? Ultrasound confirmed? Not to give false reassurance, but there's many things that can cause bleeding without meaning a miscarriage, like a subchorionic hematoma.

Yes, confirmed.


Thanks, PPs. Just feeling alone and down right now.

[Anonymous]

So sorry OP, it is sad and hard. Sending you a hug.

[Anonymous]

I’m sorry, OP. I had a very good embryo that didn’t take on my first transfer and it makes me think nothing will ever work. FWIW, I have lots of hope for you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you sure it's a mc, op? Ultrasound confirmed? Not to give false reassurance, but there's many things that can cause bleeding without meaning a miscarriage, like a subchorionic hematoma.

Yes, confirmed.


Thanks, PPs. Just feeling alone and down right now.

I am so so sorry. Sending you a hug. ??

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you sure it's a mc, op? Ultrasound confirmed? Not to give false reassurance, but there's many things that can cause bleeding without meaning a miscarriage, like a subchorionic hematoma.

Yes, confirmed.


Thanks, PPs. Just feeling alone and down right now.

I am so so sorry. Sending you a hug.

I did not mean to include the question marks on the previous post. Sorry!

[Anonymous]

I am so sorry OP. This happened to me twice and I did ultimately go on to have a healthy baby. No getting around the heartbreak though. Low, low points in my life.

Be kind to yourself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m sorry, OP. I had a very good embryo that didn’t take on my first transfer and it makes me think nothing will ever work. FWIW, I have lots of hope for you.

I'm sorry, PP. I so hope you have success in the future.

[Anonymous]

Thanks all, appreciate the replies and support.

[Anonymous]

I'm so sorry OP. It's so very hard. Take care of yourself.

[Anonymous]

This happened to me as well OP. The heartache and disappointment I felt was immense. I remember I was at work when the bleeding began and I felt like my world was crashing. Do you have anymore embryos?

[Anonymous]

I’m so sorry- the pain is real with so much invested - not to mention the hormone rollercoaster... life really isn’t fair sometimes. There’s a silent (and sometimes not so silent) sisterhood of us out there that know how you feel. Hugs

[Anonymous]

I’m so sorry. I’ve been there twice and it’s the worst kind of pain. Not something you can talk openly about in our society but it rocks your world. I hope time and further tries bring you peace and a better outcome.