Probably another failed donor cycle/rant
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Anonymous
| I was supposed to have a DE transfer today, but the dr just called and said that out of the 4 two are just cavatating so maybe they need one more day to go to day 7. Our last de cycle ended with nothing to transfer as well. Obviously, something is wrong with DH as this is a proven donor and due to our age it’s really too late for us to dig deeper. He’s had a frag test and other bloodwork and nothing showed up. I have no idea what else it could be with him. I guess it’s just not in the cards for us, but I really think fertility centers should dig really deep on both sides so you’re not years in just discovering it. |
Anonymous
| Dear OP I am really sorry we went through the same thing and they finally after 5 years figured out my husband had DNA frag hence all the issues. I do agree they should dig deeper on both sides. |
Anonymous
| Thanks PP. Once you found out that he had an issue did you get it resolved? Right now I’m saying I’m done, but if I really get the cancel call tomorrow I might not feel that way. |
Anonymous
| Would you consider DE + donor sperm? If you are already there with DE how is it that much different. |
Anonymous
| Actually overnight one made it to blast so I had an transfer today! I wouldn’t do donor egg and donor sperm. I need some sort of connection to one of us. Keeping fingers crossed. |
Anonymous
Fingers crossed, good luck! |
Anonymous
| Crossing my fingers for you! |
Anonymous
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I hope this is it for you and you have success!
But, if not, please think about how you speak to and about your DH. You said "something is wrong with DH" and "I have no idea what else it could be with him". That is a potentially very harmful and hurtful way to speak about the situation. I hope he didn't use similar terms when talking about your infertility as neither of you deserve to be thought of as a problem. |
Anonymous
| Good luck and please keep us posted! |
Anonymous
| I can’t believe it, but it worked! |
Anonymous
Hurrah! fingers crossed all progresses! |