Is it wrong to want a boyfriend just to have someone pay attention to me?

[Anonymous]

And make me feel special?

[Anonymous]

Yes.

Get a pet.

[Anonymous]

Why not? That's what lots of married women do.

[Anonymous]

Not at all. That's what an intimate relationship is.

[Anonymous]

So tired of insecure women and men who seek attention to fill the void inside themselves. Fix yourself first.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So tired of insecure women and men who seek attention to fill the void inside themselves. Fix yourself first.

Maybe follow your own advice?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So tired of insecure women and men who seek attention to fill the void inside themselves. Fix yourself first.

I actually like myself just fine. No one else has ever thought me special or paid much attention to me so I think it would be nice to have sex else think I'm special.

[Anonymous]

Thanks for the last two posts, bobos.

[Anonymous]

Most marriages are based on this.

[Anonymous]

I don’t get why that’s wrong to want. DH is my biggest fan. I am his. Isn’t that part of the fun of dating someone? Having someone excited to see you, talk and hang out with, and be intimate with? I know relationships are complicated and there’s more to it than that, but especially at the beginning, isn’t a lot of it about making each other feel good?

[Anonymous]

It's selfish if it's not mutual.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's selfish if it's not mutual.

+ 1. Love unrequited is the worst.

[Anonymous]

Having a boyfriend doesn't even necessarily mean you'll have someone who pays attention to you. Ask me how I know, ha.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Having a boyfriend doesn't even necessarily mean you'll have someone who pays attention to you. Ask me how I know, ha.

If a boyfriend doesn't pay attention to you he should be your ex boyfriend

[Anonymous]

You’re no more entitled to a relationship than a guy is entitled to have sex.