Who is more at fault the man or the woman and why?

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[Post New]12/27/2018 18:45
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Anonymous
Couple is in a relationship for 3+ years. Guy says he doesn’t want to be married, but does want to be with the girl. Woman wants to be married and stays with the guy because she loves him and figures they will be together forever. They break up. Guy married someone else. Girl is angry because she feels she wasted her best years and could have been dating other guys. Who is wrong?
[Post New]12/27/2018 18:58
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Anonymous
No one, unless one of them knowingly misrepresented their feelings to the other. Sometimes people/their feelings change over time and with new relationships.
[Post New]12/27/2018 19:02
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Anonymous
If he doesn’t want to be married (yet) that’s different than doesn’t want to be married (to her)

Why did they break up?
[Post New]12/27/2018 19:06
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Anonymous
Why do you assume someone is “wrong” here? Just because the woman is angry, it doesn’t mean the man did something wrong.
[Post New]12/27/2018 19:07
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Anonymous
Genesis OP- this is your THIRD thread on the topic! No wonder!
[Post New]12/27/2018 19:08
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Anonymous
If you want to be married, and your boyfriend doesn't, you should not be exclusively dating him.
[Post New]12/27/2018 19:10
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Couple is in a relationship for 3+ years. Guy says he doesn’t want to be married, but does want to be with the girl. Woman wants to be married and stays with the guy because she loves him and figures they will be together forever. They break up. Guy married someone else. Girl is angry because she feels she wasted her best years and could have been dating other guys. Who is wrong?


Except that girl has OCD, among other things. Third thread on this topic OP- so if you don’t see your problem, we can not help you.
[Post New]12/27/2018 19:10
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:If you want to be married, and your boyfriend doesn't, you should not be exclusively dating him.


X1000
[Post New]12/27/2018 19:12
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Anonymous
Op here. I’m not currently in a relationship but some of the responses in my he other threads have me curious about what people believe and why. Personally I mostly believe in choices and no fault breakups for the most part.
[Post New]12/27/2018 19:31
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Anonymous
The woman. If you want marriage, dating someone who doesn't want to be married is insanity.
[Post New]12/27/2018 19:51
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Anonymous
On DCUM, it is ALWAYS the fault of the man, no matter what.
[Post New]12/27/2018 19:53
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Anonymous
Woman. A lot of women have trouble accepting reality as its been told to them for some reason I don't understand.
[Post New]12/27/2018 19:55
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:On DCUM, it is ALWAYS the fault of the man, no matter what.


Except no one on this thread has said that.
[Post New]12/27/2018 20:43
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Couple is in a relationship for 3+ years. Guy says he doesn’t want to be married, but does want to be with the girl. Woman wants to be married and stays with the guy because she loves him and figures they will be together forever. They break up. Guy married someone else. Girl is angry because she feels she wasted her best years and could have been dating other guys. Who is wrong?


The woman. She needs to know nothing is forever. Not marriage. Nothing. Either stay with someone because you want to be with them. Or leave because you want to find something different.
[Post New]12/27/2018 20:44
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Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:On DCUM, it is ALWAYS the fault of the man, no matter what.


No, it just seems that way because men screw up more often.
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