Any women out there who are perfect?

[Anonymous]

I'm interested in knowing how hard it is to be "perfect"--how much effort it really takes, what it really costs your true self.

I'd be very, very grateful to any women who can admit to having that perfect facade, but what they really put into it.

[Anonymous]

What do you consider to be perfect?

[Anonymous]

I don’t know any women (or people) who have perfect facades, no matter how much effort they put into it.

[Anonymous]

No one is. Get real, OP. If you don't learn this by age 25 you're bound to be unhappy.

[Anonymous]

I was perfect. Just born with a beautiful face and slim body. I love clothes and found it easy to always look perfect and pulled together. I also had a college degree and could afford nice clothes.

Alas, aging fades us all. I am 63 now and my perfect days are behind me. But even at the time, when I knew I was beautiful, it really didn’t effect anything. My mother still died and love still broke my heart.

[Anonymous]

I can be a perfect assh*le from time to time. I can be perfectly miserable. I can be perfectly lazy.

Does this count?

[Anonymous]

You must have a low bar. I'm in my late 30s and have only met one man, and one woman, who were outwardly perfect. No, they weren't together. The woman was a part-time model and mother, and the man was a scientist working at NIH. And I'm sure that they were just as flawed inside as the rest of us.

[Anonymous]

My DW may not be perfect but she is as good as it gets...... married 36 years.

[Anonymous]

OP, the ones who try so hard to appear perfect are fighting worse battles than the rest of us. Guaranteed.

You do you. Stay in your lane. Own your own sh$t. If you aren’t happy, or “perfect” (wtf that means) - that is on you.

[Anonymous]

Me, of course!!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My DW may not be perfect but she is as good as it gets...... married 36 years.

Often people that say this are the lovely ones. Men that adore their wives are generally great guys

[Anonymous]

I will tell you who is perfect - my wife, Tessa Virtue, who I just saw in person on tour and who I am completely obsessed with. (He seems to think she is too).

https://www.google.com/search?biw=1280&bih=690&tbm=isch&sa=1&ei=gMvnW9T-J4Tt_Qa-uLugDw&q=tessa+virtue+&oq=tessa+virtue+&gs_l=img.3..35i39l2j0l8.17294.17294..17751...0.0..0.48.48.1......1....1..gws-wiz-img.bW15KPvluY4#imgrc=Dx8Q50SNuhfgYM:

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My DW may not be perfect but she is as good as it gets...... married 36 years.

Awwww! Love this!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I can be a perfect assh*le from time to time. I can be perfectly miserable. I can be perfectly lazy.

Does this count?

It does! Op said perfect.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was perfect. Just born with a beautiful face and slim body. I love clothes and found it easy to always look perfect and pulled together. I also had a college degree and could afford nice clothes.

Alas, aging fades us all. I am 63 now and my perfect days are behind me. But even at the time, when I knew I was beautiful, it really didn’t effect anything. My mother still died and love still broke my heart.

I didn’t think op meant physically perfect.