Was I "catcalled" today? I think I liked it

Anonymous
Waiting to cross at a light this morning when a pretty sport-utility vehicle stops and rolls down its window. Handsome-ish 40-ish guy driving says something like "I don't mean to be rude but you're so beautiful." I said thanks. He powered up his window and drove off. That was it.

Honestly, a day-maker.
Anonymous
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Anonymous
No. Catcalling would be, “Hey Lady, want to bone?” You just got a compliment.
Anonymous
I’m a decent looking guy. Should I be behaving this way?
Anonymous
That’s a conversation, not catcalling.
Anonymous
Awesome OP! You still got it.
Anonymous
I need to this more often! I'd love to be someone's day-breaker!

Anonymous
If the dude was ugly & driving a beater, it would be a catcall. But, because it was a nice car with a handsome man, it's not.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:If the dude was ugly & driving a beater, it would be a catcall. But, because it was a nice car with a handsome man, it's not.


+1

But it’s also about tone. I would be flattered in OPs shoes but would be creeped out if some other instances.
Anonymous
I don't know! An SUV sounds a bit like a dad car. a Porsche would definitely get my engine going. But either way it's a nice way to begin the day! Beats a chai latte.
Anonymous
It is cat calling or sexual assault if you want it to be. Best, woke feminists
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I don't know! An SUV sounds a bit like a dad car. a Porsche would definitely get my engine going. But either way it's a nice way to begin the day! Beats a chai latte.


I disagree. I would much rather have a chai latte than a rando's attention.
Anonymous
You hit a certain age, and you don't mind this sort of stuff.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I don't know! An SUV sounds a bit like a dad car. a Porsche would definitely get my engine going. But either way it's a nice way to begin the day! Beats a chai latte.


Nah, Porsche drivers are a-holes.
Anonymous
You got a compliment, not a catcall.

Catcall is when I was walking home from the gym when I lived in the district and a guy yelled “where you goin with that ass girl??”
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