This has happened so many times. I come home from the gym and our toddler has a shitty diaper. My husband usually has an excuse that the bm just happened. I texted him on the way home asking if North west was ready to go to the playground. My husband texted back no. I get home and north west has a bm diaper. My husband's excuse is that North West already had a bm and it was my turn to change his diaper. Maybe times we will be home and my dh will ask me if I can change north wests shitty diaper. I am the primary caregiver and I change north wests diaper the majority of the time. Anyway long story short, I confronted dh about not changing his diaper and I walked out. Dh wants to have tons of children but he can't change diapers. The two do not go together. I am so sick of dhs laziness. He's so lazy that he feeds our son ice cream or junk food because making eggs or a bagel is too much work. Ugh vent over. |
I think you need to give your kid a real name and stop having kids with him. |
Sounds like my husband!
My sympathies, OP. |
Op here: haha his name is not really North west! |
Did you two talk about the responsibilities before having children? I think you got suckered by DH. |
Don’t have more kids with him. Potty train. Whoever is with kid changes diapers until you do. You can’t help the food thing while you’re not there Ann’s it’s mrow work for you it make sure there is easy food already made like precluded bagel, sandwich, cheese sticks etc.
stop buying ice cream and junk so dh doesn’t have an option to feed that. |
But I did enjoy thinking about yeezus lying about diapers. |
What a dick. It's not fun but its not that hard to do it. I can't stand lazy people |
DH is a loser |
Yup, no more kids. Sorry, OP. |
Repeat OP, NO MORE KIDS! Or else you forfeit the right to complain. |
agree no more kids, he does't seem to get it. |
Has he ever changed a poppy doaper? |
Yeah, this pretty much. I get that some folks change post marriage and especially post baby but with this kind of basic care for an infant, you usually have some red flags go up beforehand. |
Then call him Larla or Larlo like any respectable dcumer. |