The sociopathic part is, if I am reading correctly, that you were able to do the job you were hired for, could adapt to changing requirements, and were both reliable and dependable for the product you produced. Obviously, this makes you a sociopath.
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| Not at all. Attorney-adviser at a federal agency, GS-14. I have good work-life balance. My DH is a litigator and we have great conversations. |
That's true. But, having worked at BVA, I know that the reverse is not uncommon. I have seen a number of BVA attorneys transfer to SSA for better quality of life. |
What are you doing now, PP? |
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One of the worst decisions I’ve ever made. Hated law school but liked practicing for a while. After about 20 years, practicing became a soul-sucking, miserable endeavor that made me physically ill. Walked away at 59 when the new psycho CEO came in and set about getting rid of everyone on the senior team of our medium-sized nonprofit.
Everyone tells me that they’ve never seen me so relaxed and happy. That’s what happens when you don’t report for a beating every day. I’m embarrassed to admit that I worked as a lawyer for 30 very long years. Don’t miss it one bit. |
Great conversations? LOL. Lawyer conversations are boring with a capital B. |
I dunno, I too have great convos with my lawyer DH. He does really interesting work and I love talking to him about it. I thought all two-lawyer couples were like this? |
| Don’t regret it at all. I’m having an interesting, varied career. There are lots of interesting jobs in law! |
| I didn’t enjoy law school. There were times I hated it. I was privileged that my parents being the Asian immigrant parents they are paid for my all law school expenses. I wasn’t at the top of my class, bur I won a few awards and did well enough to land a clerkship after graduation and a federal government job after that. My federal job is not a legal one although they like to hire attorneys for it because of the skills we bring to the table. I love my job. I have eight more years before I am retirement eligible. I certainly don’t make Big Law money and never have, but that wasn’t my dream anyway. I wanted to work for a non-profit, but after working at one as a 2L, I realized it was too emotionally draining. Theres nothing emotionally draining about my work now. Each project is complex and different enough to keep me on my toes. Had I not gone to law school, I doubt they would have hired me, so going to law school benefitted me. |
And my answer is no, I don't regret going to law school. I never went. |
| Every single day, and twice on Sunday. Met my wife in law school, which was great, but otherwise yes. It's a dreadful profession, truly. |
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If you look at the LinkedIn version of my career, I have nothing to complain about. Top school (but I paid full freight in loans), clerkship, good firm, hard-to-get government job. So I know I don't have it as bad as those who were suckered into crap schools in a recession and couldn't find anything remotely compelling work-wise.
But I still regret it. Mostly I regret that my eyes weren't more open to the range of careers and jobs out there. That's more a fault of my undergrad's useless career advising and my striving immigrant parents ("so, doctor, lawyer, or management consultant?") than anything. |
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I have no regrets. I had a scholarship to a T14 where I met my husband and some great friends. Loved clerking, toughed it out a few years in Biglaw, stressful but manageable and I saved up some $. Transitioned to government and now I have good work-life balance and make >$200k doing interesting work.
I think the trick is to only go if you can go to a top school. Otherwise it's too risky. |
What kind of immigrant parents did you have that consultant was the third option and not engineer?! |
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I remember when one lawyer was trying to sell his GTown law degree on craigslist.
Too much debt. No control over the supply of lawyers, unlike medicine. Greedy, money grubbing schools who pump out law degrees like candy. It all coalesces into huge debt loads for students, not enough jobs, and crappy outlooks for the field. |