Christina Anstead and Ant Anstead Split

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He may have realized he wanted to live in the UK after all but sorry you made a commitment and have a new baby. Suck it up and work on the relationship!

He needs to honor the commitment to his older children first.

Uh no, he chose to bring a new baby into the world and needs to parent it. And do his best with his older kids, as was apparently the plan until he suddenly changed his mind.

He can parent the new kid from the UK just like he was parenting the older ones from LA. What’s the difference? He can “do his best” with the baby.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:British men are hard to get along with. She learned that after the wedding.

I got the impression Cristina barely tolerated Tarek, but he seemed so in love with her.

Agree with this. But why did she have so many babies?

[Anonymous]

I don't know if this is their situation but I think there can be a broad tendency of the adults in these remarriages to minimize the challenges and difficulties inherent in blended families. It takes an enormous amount of patience and maturity and i would think time for people to adjust, cope and adapt. Maybe they did not have the maturity. It's not a first marriage, and life is not the brady bunch.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:British men are hard to get along with. She learned that after the wedding.

I got the impression Cristina barely tolerated Tarek, but he seemed so in love with her.

Agree with this. But why did she have so many babies?

There can be a real high and a kind of narcissism inherent in having babies.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:British men are hard to get along with. She learned that after the wedding.

I got the impression Cristina barely tolerated Tarek, but he seemed so in love with her.

Agree with this. But why did she have so many babies?

There can be a real high and a kind of narcissism inherent in having babies.

Umm she’s 37 and only has 3. I know women who started off at 22 and now have 8-9.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't know if this is their situation but I think there can be a broad tendency of the adults in these remarriages to minimize the challenges and difficulties inherent in blended families. It takes an enormous amount of patience and maturity and i would think time for people to adjust, cope and adapt. Maybe they did not have the maturity. It's not a first marriage, and life is not the brady bunch.

Yep. You didn’t see many pics with him and her kids - probably because he was trying to avoid jealousy in his kids a continent away. And of course Christina never was with his kids. I think they had them over for a week after the Xmas holidays then sent them back.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He may have realized he wanted to live in the UK after all but sorry you made a commitment and have a new baby. Suck it up and work on the relationship!

He needs to honor the commitment to his older children first.

Uh no, he chose to bring a new baby into the world and needs to parent it. And do his best with his older kids, as was apparently the plan until he suddenly changed his mind.

He can parent the new kid from the UK just like he was parenting the older ones from LA. What’s the difference? He can “do his best” with the baby.

He has a well established relationship with the older kids. He'll end up being a stranger to the baby, which is horrible.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He may have realized he wanted to live in the UK after all but sorry you made a commitment and have a new baby. Suck it up and work on the relationship!

He needs to honor the commitment to his older children first.

Uh no, he chose to bring a new baby into the world and needs to parent it. And do his best with his older kids, as was apparently the plan until he suddenly changed his mind.

He can parent the new kid from the UK just like he was parenting the older ones from LA. What’s the difference? He can “do his best” with the baby.

He has a well established relationship with the older kids. He'll end up being a stranger to the baby, which is horrible.

His older kids have been abandoned for his relationship with Christina. It’s good if he make them the priority.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He may have realized he wanted to live in the UK after all but sorry you made a commitment and have a new baby. Suck it up and work on the relationship!

He needs to honor the commitment to his older children first.

Uh no, he chose to bring a new baby into the world and needs to parent it. And do his best with his older kids, as was apparently the plan until he suddenly changed his mind.

He can parent the new kid from the UK just like he was parenting the older ones from LA. What’s the difference? He can “do his best” with the baby.

He has a well established relationship with the older kids. He'll end up being a stranger to the baby, which is horrible.

The older kids are at an age where they need a father figure present and e knows it. The baby poops, pees and is happy.

[Anonymous]

I'm glad Ant ultimately choose his kids over her. That is admirable.

I have money on Tarek's engagement ending shortly.

[Anonymous]

^^ new Christina is his rebound.

[Anonymous]

Maybe they'll end up reconciling. Pandemic stress plus new baby plus blended family issues is a LOT to deal with. Ant definitely seemed depressed and stressed out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm glad Ant ultimately choose his kids over her. That is admirable.

I have money on Tarek's engagement ending shortly.

There's nothing admirable about a man abandoning his new wife and baby to go back to his first family on another continent. Bad decisions all around. He should have got himself snipped to avoid this debacle.

[Anonymous]

They should give the baby up for adoption.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:British men are hard to get along with. She learned that after the wedding.

I got the impression Cristina barely tolerated Tarek, but he seemed so in love with her.

Agree with this. But why did she have so many babies?

She only had 2 kids with Tarek.