They were never saying they couldn't pay for college. They were saying that they realized that they earn enough to just pay cash each year for it, so they didn't fully fund their 529s. |
Yes. Wildly at odds with the NPC. All of the other schools came within a few thousand dollars of the NPC figures. |
It was one kid, one school, and the stats far exceeded the school average. Hence our surprise. |
EXACTLY! Life is short and expensive. Why have so many children? I don't get it. |
+1. One child and will be able to cover everything for undergrad private in 529 by the time DC is 12 or 13. Will also cover any grad, med, law if DC is interested. We would never be able to do this if we had 2 children. Sure kids can take out all or partial loans but it means they will not get the head start in life they would if they had no loans and could potentially delay buying a house, moving to large city, getting married, having kids, taking a career change, etc... I’m not saying it’s wrong for kids to have loans but it’s a huge rock on their young shoulder for years to come. |
| Put the maximum in when the Dow was around 9,000 in 2009. Timing is everything. |
Yes, this is a big plus to having an only! |
| Most schools offer merit. My slightly above average student got merit at most schools she applied and she is attending OOS flagship at $32k a year. Had many choices including in state with merit at $20k a year. Younger DS excellent student, had some offers with significant merit but ultimately chose highly ranked private, it is $72k per year. When kids started college, 529 had $300k so rest we are paying out of pocket. It was a tough choice regarding second kid because he had some very attractive merit at Pitt, Ohio State and UMass. The bottom line is OP, you will have choices but very likely to get merit at top schools, they just don’t give it. So it will be your decision if you want to pay or not for the top schools—Duke, Vandy, Notre Dame, Swathmore, Georgetown if your kid is lucky enough to get in. HHI $400k |
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We are planning to pay a substantial amount out of pocket in addition to the 529. Our mortgage and our own student loans will be paid off right around the time my oldest is starting college, plus we won't be paying his living expenses anymore. I feel like that should give us close to $5k/month.
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State school has been drilled into my kids since birth. I have one at Darden at UVA getting his masters and he got his undergrad at W&M the other at VaTech engineering school. Our oldest is paying his way through Darden and got a lot of free money. Ad a virginia resident I did not see any compelling reason to encourage my kids to look outside our state borders for schools. |
| We have saved some money, but nothing close to 250k. We are already paying 80k/yr for two kids to go to private school, so its not like college will be a shock. |
Why can't you financially help? Why is the oldest paying his way through all of it? |
I'm all for state schools and am a double hoo, but I wouldn't point to Darden (or UVA Law for that matter) as an example of an affordable state school. They're essentially the same price of similarly situated private programs. |
Yes. Now they are. I paid 12k for Virginia Law in state 20 years ago. Crazy how expensive it is. |